No matter how children don't associate with others, they can't drop out of school, because learning is a right and obligation, and nine-year compulsory education is not allowed. You can go to the Education Bureau to report that even if we don't have children running out to class, teachers or schools will only listen to them. When children arrive at school, education and management are the obligations of the school, and they cannot shirk their responsibilities. Poor management is their problem. The child is innocent.

1, encourage children to go out to play.

The child has social behavior, about 3 years old. When children are young, we should often take them to parks and community activities. We not only encourage children to associate with other children, but also mothers should set an example for their children and take the initiative to chat happily with other mothers and communicate enthusiastically. The child has gradually understood people's feelings, and he can also feel the pleasant atmosphere of getting along with others, and naturally he will be infected and play with his children with peace of mind. Children grow up among children. In fact, there is a natural affinity between children. As long as parents allow them to be naughty and let them play freely with their children, their ability to make friends can naturally be fully developed.

So, what kind of educational methods should parents use to cultivate their children's good interpersonal skills?

2. Exercise children's oral expression ability

Family should be a place where children can fully express themselves and talk. Conversation is the most basic way of communication between people. If children have strong oral expression skills, it will be much easier to make friends. Theresa Fogg, a doctor of mental health in Singapore, said: "A pleasant conversation will ignite children's interest in talking and make them feel free. In short, children should be allowed to talk about anything they like, which is to encourage their creativity and oral expression. " You can also talk more about your feelings with your children, so that children can often tell their feelings in conversation, and parents should always tell their children their true feelings.

3. Teach children the principles of getting along with friends.

Parents should tell their children what attitude they should take to get along with their friends, which are popular qualities and which are behaviors that undermine friendship. For example, people who can share, cooperate, praise others, abide by the rules of the game, care about others, compete fairly and help others are all popular varieties. Aggressive behavior, bullying, swearing, grabbing things, laughing at others, harassing others, not listening to advice and being stingy will all affect the friendship between peers. For those children who are often ignored by their peers or excluded by the group, parents should analyze the reasons while they are sad and take effective countermeasures to help and educate their children to make friends correctly.

4. Welcome children to bring friends home.

If a child feels that his parents don't welcome his friends, then gradually he won't bring his friends home. He would rather play outside with his friends. On the surface, it is quiet at home, but in fact, the consequence of this is that children lose confidence in interpersonal communication, and the second is that parent-child relationship is alienated, which is not worth the candle. And if parents welcome their children's friends and warmly entertain their children's friends, then children will become more generous in interpersonal communication, and therefore have more status among friends.

5. Look at the child's aggressive behavior from another angle.

If your child always likes to fight, then many times, the child's performance is actually a signal: he needs the warmth and care of his mother. In family education, sometimes due to various reasons, the close relationship between parents and children can not be fully realized; On the other hand, some mothers who believe in "restraint" regard accepting children's physical coquetry as "connivance", which leads to the lack of children's psychological needs, often manifested as children's aggressive behavior. Therefore, the adults around should treat such children gently with an understanding attitude and strengthen physical contact. Understand and meet children's needs without reprimanding them for their bad intentions and aggressive behavior. At first, the child may show resistance, but with the increase of times, he will become active in asking for touching, and the child's aggressive behavior will gradually decrease.

6. Let children have more places to attract their peers.

In addition to actively making friends, it is also important for children to attract their peers and make friends with themselves. This requires parents to pay more attention to and cultivate their children in peacetime, so that children have more places to attract their peers and strive to show them in peacetime. For example, a parent usually lets his children express their reasonable ideas and suggestions so that everyone can understand his ideas and practices. Over time, his classmates and teachers called him "smart boy", so that students in the class would take him to participate in some multi-person combination competitions in the school. Parents can also cultivate their children's extensive interests and enhance their self-confidence. Friendship is based on common interests, and it is difficult for a child without hobbies to make friends. Strive to cultivate children's broad interests and make them establish friendship with classmates in various activities. If children have their own specialties, they can increase their attractiveness. Parents should encourage their children to seize the opportunity and show themselves boldly. Because timely and appropriate display can win the recognition of peers.

Let children have a good social mentality and ability and learn to make better friends. Wise parents will regard it as their greatest wealth to their children. When children have them, they have the key to success.

Please adopt it, thank you!