Nowadays, there are so many scumbag men and scumbag women that they are hard to guard against, so analyzing the words and behaviors they say in daily chats has become a top priority. From the very beginning of "What are you doing?", we begin to analyze the other person's motives in order to distinguish between those who are normal friends and those who are scum with low moral quality.

If carelessness occurs, lesbians are often more seriously harmed. Being defrauded of money, sex, and even infected with some diseases, therefore, all scumbag behaviors and sins must be nipped in the cradle from the beginning.

1 Online Dating

This is a very common way to make friends now. With various dating software, video software, etc., you can almost casually send a message to someone you don’t know. . This provides an excellent breeding ground for criminals to commit fraud.

“Hello”

“What are you doing?”

When your phone receives a message like this from a strange man, how should you reply?

First of all, analyze that he must be interested in the lesbian in front of you. Don’t be too happy and think that he likes you. It is very likely that his interest is to make money from you, or he may be married. People come out to find lovers.

Even if you are lucky enough to meet a single person, you must also consider that most singles on the Internet are not in good conditions. If the conditions are good, there will already be suitors in real life. Therefore, we must be vigilant.

After having such a basic understanding, I have a certain direction when replying to him: "I haven't done anything, how about you", and start to quickly understand his basic situation, where he is, what unit he works for, Married or single, age, he will definitely ask you the same questions at this time, but don't disclose your specific address easily.

The purpose is to quickly understand the other party’s true situation.

One of the indicators is "date". People who make appointments without even talking for a few words can basically be deleted, blocked or ignored.

There is also a completely opposite indicator. He is extremely concerned about you within a few days of chatting: "Remember to eat on time", "Wear more clothes", "You are so beautiful", etc., and his conditions are better than You are much better. Don’t be too happy. This is also a bad sign. Men also want to find someone with slightly better conditions than themselves or with the same conditions as themselves. It can be said that it is very polite to be so attentive to someone who is not as good as yourself. To commit adultery is to steal. At this time, just quietly watch how he performs. No matter how good the conditions are, don't be tempted.

The normal way to chat with a man who is better off than you is: you say something, he says something, and if you don’t say something, he won’t say anything either. Because the feeling of superiority will make him slightly proud. Scammers are eager to achieve their goals and will not waste too much time on such an inexperienced woman.

2 Through work, colleagues, classmates, friends, family and relatives, introductions, and netizens whom I have chatted with for a long time

Compared with the high-vigilance of online dating, now I can finally relax. After all, people who are familiar with each other are less likely to cause trouble.

When any of the familiar men starts to send you "What are you doing?", as soon as you reply, you will fall into a subtle and ambiguous situation, as if it is a prelude to becoming a boyfriend and girlfriend by default.

So if you don’t feel anything about him, just ignore him. It's also a good time to test whether he's just chatting casually or whether he really wants to get to know you and pursue you, because people who chat casually probably feel bored and won't send any more messages. People who are serious will continue to take the initiative.

If the other person happens to be someone you are interested in getting to know, how should you reply?

If you search on the Internet, a lot of earthy love words will come up: "I am chatting with a handsome guy"

"What are I thinking about you"

"I am doing something dark I’ll give you a taste of the cooking someday."

In short, different replies will give people a different feeling, which is slightly more interesting than replying: "Eating" or "Working".

So go search the Internet and find inspiration.

If you have heard any words of high emotional intelligence, please share them in the comments.