There are three friends who benefit and three friends who suffer. Friends are straight, friends are cool, and friends are listened to, which is beneficial; Friends make friends, friendly and soft, and friends will be destroyed and damaged. Advise and be good at this. Friends learn from each other.
I save myself three times a day; Is it cheating for others? Don't believe in making friends? Can you pass it on? A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and a friendship between villains is as sweet as a cup of tea. A gentleman is indifferent to his relatives, but a villain is willing to give up. There is no reason. If we are United, we will be separated for no reason. Giving people words is more important than stones and jade. A gentleman really thinks it is expensive. Be honest in making friends, not snobbish.
Gentleman's words are few but true; The words of the villain are many and empty.
Once you die, you will know your friendship; Poverty and wealth are a state of knowing each other.
Never make a bad sound.
Pay with money, pay with money. People who pay with color fall in love with Chongqing. People blame others for their mistakes and learn from their ugliness. A gentleman does not know his friends, but trusts them. A scholar dies as a bosom friend, and a woman is her lover. You can make a difference if you don't flatter your friends or be arrogant below. Friends without hearts, face friends; A friend without heart, a friend with face.
An inch of courtesy requires a foot of courtesy. Snobbish friends can't go far. Light and straight, gentleman, not soft; Friends are not ashamed, but teaching is beneficial. Since ancient times, a gentleman has never made a fool of himself after breaking up. The way to make friends is still white; Dyed with Zhu, it is red; Dyed blue is green. Holding the right path, a thousand miles away, is solid in glue and solid in stone.
Those who have the potential to pay will be absolutely inclined; Friends who have made profits will be scattered when they are poor. No profit, no harm, no concern, no meticulousness, anyone who has the means can do it. Gentlemen choose first, then pay, and villains pay first, then choose. A gentleman can listen to his words, and if he listens to his words, he will be healthy and famous for thousands of years.
Making friends with immoral people will inevitably lead to love and hate. Villains have no friends, but gentlemen have friends. The villain likes himself and hates himself, while the gentleman likes and hates Tao. Snobbish friendship transcends feelings, moral friendship transcends reason, and feelings are changeable and reason is unforgettable. There are no happy friends and no happy friends in the world.
Far rich and near poor, courtesy and the world intersect less; There are many friends in the world because of money. The world bosom friend, there will be no Yan Ying. Knowing each other is the most important thing. When people know each other, it is very important to know each other. A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June. Rare friends, dare to criticize face to face; Sometimes I can't stand it, and suddenly I get angry; After feeling inappropriate, apologize and come to the door; So we cooperated again, understood each other and were calm.
Maybe it's because life is so lonely. People living in this world always have to make all kinds of friends. China people advocate the traditional way of making friends that "a gentleman values righteousness over profit".
To make friends, we should also make friends who are afraid of friends, that is, friends who are upright and dare to put forward different opinions and criticisms. The most important thing is that the friends you choose should be decent, that is, people with good character. If we can get deeper friendship, maybe we should pay more attention to our behavior and live up to our friends' understanding.
Honesty is indispensable, and honesty is deep. Complacency is a terrible trap for us; Besides, we dug this trap ourselves.
In addition to famous sayings and aphorisms, we should also remember when making friends: on the one hand, friends should not be forced, on the other hand, we should not carry burdens for friends. Third, friends have stages, and the relationship between friends is based on mutual respect and equality. On the contrary, making friends can also bring trouble and make people feel unpredictable.
In recent years, among young people, most of them have also implemented buffets, and everyone has a lively party, but there is no burden of gratitude. With the progress of society, people's ideas are also changing, and the fashion that a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water should be strongly advocated.