I think if you really want to find a man as your friend, it’s normal for others to make irresponsible remarks. Just keep a calm mind. Don’t pay attention to what others say about you. Just be yourself. After all, you don’t live for others to see. This is how society is now. No matter what you do, it doesn’t matter, but there will always be people talking about you. If you listen too much, feel calm. Maybe that person is jealous of you. You are popular, just go your own way and let others tell you