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I feel so lonely and full of insecurity. I really wish someone could be with me and not be alone forever....

Lonely people are noble, have a calm mind, and are not affected by external conditions. In fact, being alone is quite good. You can do whatever you want. Don’t force yourself to make friends and communicate with others. This will only It will put more pressure on you, and you will also feel irritated because you can't make friends. It's not worth it, and it will make you more autistic

I am also very introverted, and I am like a piece of wood in front of strangers. , but I am positive, optimistic and motivated, and I don’t care too much about other people’s evaluations. I just need to be myself. As long as I am friendly to others and maintain a kind heart, I will still make sincere friends.

If it does have an impact on your life, now that social networks are booming, you can try to make friends online and speak actively without fear of making a fool of yourself. You can vent to your heart's content. As long as you are willing to pay, there are still many people who will care about you. In reality, you can also keep smiling. Confident women are the most beautiful. Even if you don't take the initiative, others will talk to you.

If you are not confident and expressionless, you will create a sense of alienation. You can read more meaningful books and continuously improve yourself, so that your self-confidence will come, and you can also maintain a calm and noble mentality. Or maybe you think it's easy to say but hard to do. You can also watch some funny movies, videos, books, jokes, etc., think of some happy things, and watch them every night before going to bed, such as watching an episode of "Crayon Shin-chan" (I don't know if you like it). Don't think Be childish, keep your childlike innocence, how good it is to sleep with a smile like this.

When you are in a good mood, you will feel that everything is fine, and then others will automatically talk to you. Naturally, you will gradually have more friends. If there is no topic, you can cultivate your interest first. Read more meaningful books and you won't feel lonely.