No matter which big city is Beijing, Shanghai and Shenzhen, as long as you are interested in finding a girlfriend, you will definitely find it. If the circle of contact is not so wide, or you don't have much time, then you can only have friends to introduce you. Although blind date is relatively backward now, there are still people who can't say bad things. You can use some large websites or friends circle to send them frequently. Where there is a blind date or something, pay more attention to yourself. As long as you have time, you can contact yourself. In fact, what friends introduced is the best, at least reassuring.
But now this society is very complicated, it is easy to find a partner, and it is really difficult to find a reliable person. This requires you to know pearls yourself. Spend more time communicating with your girlfriend. Maybe you'll find out if this person is right for you. If it is not suitable, leave early and find the next one at once. This may not sound good, but we all have the same goal. If it is not suitable, don't force or delay the time.
In fact, it is ok to chat with friends for an hour every day. For example, if your friend introduces you to a girlfriend, you only need to spare one or two days a week, so you can spare two or three hours to go shopping or have dinner with her every day. It is ok to waste a long time. In fact, no matter what job you are, whether you are a programmer or an ordinary employee, you just need to spare some time every day.
But the general procedure is still relatively rigid. If you can be less rigid, it is best, because you have a good job, and you are not rigid, you are a lively and cheerful person. I think many girls will like you. As long as you can treat others wholeheartedly, it is certainly not difficult to find a partner, but you need to study what your future personality will be like. Leave more private time for your partner, take her to do something she likes and get in touch with him more often. You will always find someone who suits you, even if this person is not suitable, you are not afraid of not finding the next one.