When I was a child, the reason for becoming friends was simple. Maybe they have the same interests and hobbies. You live in the west of the village and I live in the east. When I want to play table tennis, I can make an appointment at school from a distance. It may also be because our homes are close together, so we can talk about anything and often do farm work together. Because I know enough, I feel at ease.
1. Along the way in life, I meet many people and make some friends. But later, some friends became passers-by, some friends turned against each other, and some friends were never seen again, which is sad. As the saying goes, this moment, that moment. No one can stay in the past, and no one will stay for you.
When I grow up, I find it very difficult to become friends. As time goes by, people's hearts are changing, and the old saying of "drag your family and bring your family to meet you" is just an afterthought. Your life is very different from his; what you want to talk about and what he wants to hear are no longer on the same channel.
2. No matter where you go, it is enough as long as the other person can leave a warm memory in your heart and make you look back and still feel that those years were not in vain. It's not that they separated for no reason, but that their three views have long been different, their hearts have gradually become alienated, and they have slowly withdrawn from each other's world.
Don’t be surprised by the fragility and shortness of friendship. Only when the tide of time dissipates does the stone that symbolizes the truth of adult friendship emerge from the water. The truth about adult dating is just three words: indifference, coldness, and distance. Friends, as little as possible, as often as possible.
3. When you miss the days when two people were together, you should also understand that such two parties are destined to separate. Instead of forcing each other to get together and only increase disappointment, it is better to let each other go. Just say goodbye quietly like this, walking towards each other before a bigger conflict occurs between the two, but leaving the friendship in its best period.
The reason why friends are friends is because they understand each other and take initiative with each other. He pays attention to your news and is willing to listen to you patiently when you have something to do to see if there is anything he can do for you. And you, always remember the other person and keep in touch.
4. When many relationships come to the end, they are all about interests and each other’s value. Compared to the beginning, there may be less love and sincerity, and more reason and thinking. To this day, the truth remains the same. It is difficult to have true friends under interests. Regardless of whether we are willing to mature or not, the other party may have matured long ago. Gradually disappearing is just a sign.
5. When a person no longer meets your needs, and a person can no longer keep up with your pace, you will abandon him consciously or unconsciously. At the same time, you may also be abandoned by others. . We will eventually become old friends in the mountains and rivers. What are friends? People who come together based on similar emotions or common interests. Therefore, it is also possible for them to drift apart due to no longer interests and emotional divergence. "Don't drag your friends on the road, find friends on the road."
Everyone has a personality and a direction in life. If you force yourself to go with someone, you will lose yourself. As a person who focuses on studying, if he devotes a large part of his energy to managing the world, he will be disturbed by the world and cannot be a "spectator of the world."
When a person reaches a certain age, there are many colleagues in the workplace, but they cannot be regarded as friends. Everyone comes here for salary and status; when a person is at a dinner party, he will get to know many people, but when he puts down his glass of wine, he can be alone; There are many people in the city, but few people will smile at you sincerely.