Children who will share with other children are popular children in kindergarten, so parents should cultivate the concept of sharing. Usually, you can bring some small toys to the kindergarten and let the children invite other friends to play together. If there are conditions at home, children can invite other children to a party at home on weekends and entertain them with their own toys and snacks.
? 2. Help children analyze problems?
When children come back and tell their parents that they don't have good friends in kindergarten, parents should not only give priority to comfort, but also tell their babies that it is the fault of other children that they don't want to make friends with them. Of course, they should not scold their children because they have no friends and blame them for their incompetence. When the child tells you, you should communicate well with the child, communicate with the teacher, find out the reason why the child has no friends, and then help the child analyze and determine the solution according to the reason. ?
3. Don't let children choose friends.
Some parents are afraid that their baby will be a naughty child, and always tell their baby that such a child likes to take other people's things, is not good, doesn't like him and so on. In this case, it is easy for children to develop the bad habit of "picking friends". Parents should let their children make friends with different personalities and let them learn how to communicate with people with different personalities. ?
4. let the children become peaceful?
Children who love to fight or rob others are always unwelcome. Parents should calm down the fighting children. Parents should set an example, don't treat their children violently, and let them feel love all the time. Don't let children watch books or TV with violent pictures. In addition, family harmony is also very important for children's personality growth.
How to cultivate children's interpersonal skills?
1, through a series of educational activities, help Bobo learn to master the basic skills of communicating with peers, be polite to others, be humble to each other, unite and cooperate, and tell Bobo that only in this way can he be liked by everyone and truly have his own good friends. ?
2. Organize various forms of games, promote the cooperation between Bobo and his companions, and gradually experience the happiness brought by friendly cooperation, so as to slowly adjust his various behaviors and make himself accepted and liked by everyone. ?
3. Learn from parents and change their educational concept. The educational difference between young parents and old parents is also a very common phenomenon. In this regard, I published photos of children's activities in my blog, and also recorded many different performances and analyses of some children, and reprinted many famous parenting classics and educational viewpoints. Parents update their ideas again and again while browsing blogs, which also plays a very good role in imperceptible influence.