Marriage is a science, and various contradictions will inevitably appear in the relationship between husband and wife. Not all marriages are unbreakable. Husband and wife often do not pay attention to the details of life, which often leads to conflicts between husband and wife or cold war.

How to restore the relationship between husband and wife? 1 1. Losing a child or not taking good care of it.

Women are different from men. A woman can endure and refuse to divorce because of the happiness of her children. Boys don't divorce because they lost their children after divorce, or because they lack work experience in caring for children and don't want to take care of them after divorce. In other words, apart from feelings, in short, many people take care of their children, and they are very happy and carefree. Why not break up?

Many cases of divorced men are about getting a child and then being taken care of by parents. After all, it is very difficult for a boy to take care of a baby unless he is committed to becoming a father.

Second, after divorce, the damage to rights and interests cannot be compared with it.

Many couples have lived together for many years, from the thin property when they were young to the accumulated wealth. Most of you and me are husband and wife property. In the case of divorce, the standard of laws and regulations is usually to take care of the weak and safeguard the interests of women, which will cause great harm to some boys and even give up most of their property.

On the other hand, many women are in charge of the real power of the Finance Bureau, which also makes many boys afraid to divorce casually. After all, if they lack the courage to make a living and lose their great achievements at the age of forty, it will be the beginning of their life.

Third, divorce will hurt your own enterprises and institutions.

Divorce is not a glamorous thing. Many boys' brand images have been damaged by the problems of marriage and love, especially some boys who are located in Hong Miao. If their marriage life is not solved well, they are likely to lose the influence of senior officials who were originally the top priority.

In many jobs, the solution of married life seems to be related to men's working ability, wisdom and spirit in a certain sense, which also represents whether men are emotionally mature, loyal and trustworthy.

On the other hand, many boys' marriage life itself is the result of this measure of rights and interests, and they use the relationship between husband and wife to promote their own enterprises and institutions. If they lose their married life, their enterprises and institutions will suffer great damage, and it is usually not easy to divorce.

Therefore, if divorce will damage their corporate or brand image, many boys will give up divorce, even if they just leave the name of husband and wife and go out to find another lover, it is not easy to divorce.

Fourth, you can hang the flag without divorce.

The reason why China's third woman Bao [Xiao San] is extremely strong is related to the mentality of her daughter-in-law. Although the daughters-in-law resisted, they all seemed to accept the objective fact that "any man loves promiscuity". Interestingly, Asian men don't promiscuous before marriage, while European and American boys promiscuous before marriage and remain faithful after marriage, because Europeans think that if they like someone, they should remain faithful. If you lack feelings, you might as well divorce. Monogamy is an exotic product in China, and the traditional system in China has been polygamy for many years.

Many women in China scold third parties and mistresses, that is to say, they don't scold boys, so everyone is chastened, because scolding boys will come out immediately, which is not the result they want. Therefore, many boys have learned their lesson. They are flying colorful flags outside, but it is not easy to throw away the red flag at home. If you are so happy, you don't have to bear the ridicule of divorce, and you can be happy outside. Even if your relationship breaks down, you can't live without it. Only fools can stay, otherwise it's nonsense.

5. Get used to being selfish.

Nowadays, many boys resist divorce because of their inner anxiety. For them, the bad influence of divorce represents the lack of a man's true identity or a man's elegant demeanor, and that psychological state will always be broadened into daily life. Therefore, many boys are not afraid to accept divorce, but are afraid that they will not accept themselves after divorce.

Strange, but in practice, such boys are commonplace. They will never get divorced easily until they find a new marriage and friendship. Their personal feelings are the core of the attack.

Sixth, boys love vanity.

On the other hand, boys are also vain. Divorce will not only endanger his position, but also damage his brand image as a good man. Because of such vanity, many boys will not easily accept divorce even if their feelings break down. Just as boys can be proud of having many lovers or girlfriends, they are not ashamed, but if they divorce because of cheating after marriage, you have nothing to be proud of, which seems to be the representative of this failure to solve the daughter-in-law problem.

So, considering the vanity of men, let's say, wow, how can you ensure that your daughter-in-law doesn't know, and maybe she can go out and have an affair? Even if you don't show your face, your heart will get carried away. Naturally, such a boy is not easy to divorce casually.

Seven, the boy's exclusive desire, he will hate divorce.

Boys have a strong desire for exclusivity. After marriage, the daughter-in-law followed him for many years, which means that he subconsciously. If, after the divorce, I think my daughter-in-law will get married twice, and I will have sex with other boys, especially with boys who are more capable or better than him, then many boys can't stand it.

This kind of male chauvinism and narrow-minded boys will feel that they are wearing the same cuckold husband, so it is not easy for boys with this psychological state to file for divorce even if they have nothing to do with their daughter-in-law.

Eight, the weakness of boys is the reason why they are afraid of divorce.

Many boys are weak, which also makes them afraid of divorce. The vast majority of husbands, even if they don't have a good relationship with their daughters-in-law, will be severely hit if their wives file for divorce.

On the other hand, some boys' desire for control is controlled by their daughters-in-law. Although the explosive power of women deceiving men is very rare, it is not impossible to find it. The wife is above the boy, which will also make the boy weaker. Even if it is damaged, it is not easy to divorce. It is said that there are many news reports that boys were killed by their wives. It's pathetic that they would rather die than divorce.

Nine, under the pressure of family work.

Many boys are afraid of divorce because of the pressure of family work.

For example, boys are filial and wives have a good relationship with their daughters-in-law. When you divorced, I didn't recognize this! Boys like that are generally afraid of getting divorced casually.

In other words, if both men and women or women own some goods related to rights and interests because of the relationship between husband and wife, divorce will endanger the trust of family members in both men and women, resulting in serious damage to food, clothing, housing and transportation or money, then it is not easy for boys to divorce under such work pressure.

Ten, I don't want to mess around.

Many boys' thoughts are not at home in essence, so it is not harmful for them to break up or not split. In their minds, the whole process of falling in love and getting married is boring or a waste of time. They were in trouble, and finally got married, divorced and started over. Only a fool would do that.

How to restore the broken relationship between husband and wife II. First, we must have firm determination to save our marriage.

Saving marriage requires firm confidence. Before saving it, we must first think about whether this marriage is worth saving. Generally speaking, the motivation to save marriage can be divided into the realistic level and the spiritual level. Realistic factors, including economy, family, social interaction and so on. The essence of redemption is more to return the life order to' normal'. The spiritual level reflects more psychological needs.

Knowing your own savings motives can help you correctly predict the difficulties you may encounter and your tolerance, so that you will not be passive everywhere. If it's worth saving, make up your mind. The road to recovery is doomed to be difficult. If you want to back down when you encounter difficulties, it is likely that it will be difficult to get results, so you must strengthen your confidence first.

Second, keep your distance from your husband and change yourself.

In fact, regardless of divorce or not, this step is necessary. Only by changing your image can you create the opportunity of "secondary attraction" and get along better after recovery.

But after the divorce, the other party is likely to deliberately alienate you or even black you. So at this time, no matter what you do or say to the other party, the other party will regard you as a threat and even think that the problem is caused by you.

Stubborn or active contact can easily lead to boredom and loss of the last chance. So in the early days of divorce, no matter how you change, it is necessary to disconnect for a short time.

Third, get back together with her husband and start dating again.

Reconnecting is a very complicated process. You may need to reconnect through some disconnected contacts or social circles to create "secondary attraction". Even if the "second attraction" is successful, you still have to remember that you are divorced, and there is no legal or definite relationship, just an acquaintance relationship, so you should start from friends at first. Rely on your own charm to attract each other again, and then find opportunities to communicate well and show your previous efforts.

As for how to get the object back, it is necessary to test your emotional intelligence. However, a good attitude and firm confidence will make you get twice the result with half the effort when you start over with each other. In short, when marriage encounters problems, calm down as soon as possible, think more about why, and find reasons from yourself. Then change yourself and try to save it.

Saving marriage is a long process, which requires strong faith and patience, and the implementation of the recovery plan step by step, in order to successfully repair the marriage and save the broken marriage.

When there is a crisis in marriage, what is the correct way for women to deal with it? In the face of a fragmented marriage, women should not be too anxious. As long as they take the right approach, it is still possible to save their husbands.

First: Don't forget your initiative and find the key to saving your husband.

Now is the era of free love, since you get along together, you must be attracted to each other. Think back to what attracted each other, and then think back to what chose to be together. Looking back on the past can help you find the key points when you are "attracted twice" Next, improve your charm and attract your husband again.

Second: Face the reality and admit your husband's love for you.

Since you have chosen a partner, you should accept the reality. You can't expect Wu Dalang to be Pan An or Ximen Qing to be Liu Xiahui. Some facts are predestined, and it's no use complaining blindly. Try to face and accept them, and then become a habit.

When you get used to each other, you will find that they are not as bad as you think. Recognizing each other and not complaining can make it easier for you to get along.

Third: change yourself and improve the relationship between husband and wife.

Change yourself, including external image and internal image. In terms of external image, it doesn't mean that you must have plastic surgery, but you can make up properly or make yourself look neat and clean. Don't think that the image of the old couple is not important. Marriage and love need to be kept fresh all the time.

In the internal image, on the one hand, it is to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and to carry forward the advantages of being accepted by the other party and attracting the other party. On the other hand, it is to enrich your life and establish a confident and optimistic attitude. Optimism and self-confidence can not only change your internal image, but also make your external image more temperament.

Fourth: communication, * * * to solve marriage problems.

As the saying goes, husband and wife quarrel and quarrel at the end of the bed. A lot of things, to put it bluntly, are no big deal. When communicating, learn to listen more and don't keep your words in your heart. Calm, listen carefully, speak appropriately, understand tolerance, communicate smoothly, and get along well.