9 social skills with high emotional intelligence, to learn

1. Smile as much as possible. In all kinds of social activities, smiling is the lowest cost, but the benefits are great. Smiling can eliminate the negative psychology of others such as vigilance, vigilance and doubt, and create a friendly social atmosphere, which is the most basic high emotional intelligence skill.

2. Remember each other's names. In social activities, the biggest mistake or embarrassment should be forgetting each other's names. This is often not because of poor memory, but because of insufficient attention, which is a manifestation of low emotional intelligence. When forgetting the other person's name, although some skills can be used to cover up the resulting mistakes or embarrassment, such as directly saying things or calling them "hello" or "hey", it is easy to leave a bad feeling on the other person.

3. Pay attention to eye contact to show sincerity. In social communication, if you blink your eyes or avoid eye contact with the other person, the conversation may become boring or make the other person feel that you have a guilty conscience. Therefore, when talking with people, you must make eye contact, which can show your sincerity and is also a basic social etiquette.

4. Try to give something to each other. For example, in the past, business cards were very good things, but in the era of mobile Internet, there are more things that can be given. Socialization is to make friends, and making friends is inseparable from active and practical expression. Giving a business card or phone number, or your social account number, can make the other party have a good impression on you.

5. If possible, have some simple physical contact. For example, shaking hands is the most common social etiquette. Through simple physical contact such as shaking hands and hugging, the relationship is easy to develop in depth, and if there is no physical contact all the time, it is easy to make the relationship gradually fade.

6. When the other party speaks, respond in time. Communication is two-way. When the other person is talking, you must not be indifferent, let alone absent-minded. You should keep your attention and respond to what others are saying in time, such as nodding your head, simply saying "yes" or making sounds like "uh-huh" and "ah". Don't underestimate these sounds, which can show that you are communicating with the other person.

7. If you agree with the other party's remarks, you should agree and explain the reasons. In social activities, when the opinions expressed by the other party resonate with you and make you feel close, you should immediately agree with them, and give an example or combine your own understanding to tell the reasons. In this way, you will leave a deep impression on the other party and make the other party feel good about you quickly.

8. Don't be prejudiced before talking. People get to know each other, gradually deepen their feelings and make friends in the process of communication. If you have great prejudice and prejudice against a person in advance, you will not be able to correctly understand the other person's words with an objective attitude in real conversation. Even if the other person speaks well, you will not accept it easily, which will create great obstacles to social activities.

9. Don't pretend you don't understand. If you say something wrong, admit it in time. In social activities, we will come into contact with many people and involve many things. There are some things that you definitely don't know. At this time, you should be modest and never pretend to know, otherwise, once discovered, the social image will be seriously damaged. In addition, it is common to say something wrong in social activities. Correcting it in time will make people respect you, but if you are wrong, you will only be disgusted.