Because the northeast people really want to make friends with the northeast people, we should pay attention to it, don't play empty!
I recall that the real big business owners in China are basically southerners. In our three northeastern provinces, Heilongjiang, Kyrgyzstan and Liaoning have no big enterprises and big bosses, mainly private enterprises. State-owned enterprises said separately.
Northeast people are black, and Jilin and Liao refer to the majority, that is, the rectum. Some people from the northeast are quite confused, so I will summarize. I'm talking about the mainstream northeast people today. Mainstream Northeasters are nice, honest and heartless.
A truly pure and authentic Northeastern, there is no such business genetic factor in his genes.
The real Northeastern, stupid and big, stupid and rough, shows that he is more practical and doesn't play with his brain. Just be happy, just hate each other. So, if you lie to him and he finds out, he will talk to you endlessly, even to the end.
I was born in the beautiful Northern Wilderness Production and Construction Corps in Heilongjiang Province. I know the general situation of the northeast people, and I know what they are thinking.
At that time, don't feel guilty and make trouble with him in order to pay the bill. If he doesn't say that he invited guests today, then you pay the bill, and some people are still working because of eating. Everyone in the national netizens association wants to say whether it's fake or not. No, they said that if you want to invite, you have to pay the bill, otherwise you can't mix in the circle in the future.
Southerners think this is polite, but it is not.
When dealing with people from the Northeast, it's best to tell them frankly and sincerely what you want to do. If you can do it, he will do it If his comprehensive quality and ability are really not good, and he makes it clear, then this person is not good. He won't be here, he won't be secretive, definitely not.
However, in the process of drinking, everyone said that they drank too much and boasted too much. Some said that they were playboys, and that was a very small number of individual Northeasters. Without Jin Gangzuan, don't worry about the work of porcelain. People should have a face when they are alive.
In fact, he can solve anything you want to talk about. If he agrees, he will certainly do it.
If you don't agree, it means that he is incompetent or he doesn't want to do it, then forget it. He won't waste time gently saying, I really can't. Why not? 1234 means people will let you go.
Agreed. Then you have to help him. What communication is the most important thing? If you can't do it and don't tell others, that's the most annoying thing.
In fact, getting along with the northeast people is simple and happy, and you don't have to move those crooked hearts. Because northeast people have a characteristic, they feel tired and confused!
Good, we have a lot of places, bad, we don't.
They don't think much about anything, and he feels a headache. Unwilling to think deeply about anything is a common phenomenon in Northeast China.
Northeasters get along well with people from all over the country. If you sincerely look down on some Northeasters, Northeasters can feel that you are not sincere to him, disturb him, or respond to him, just perfunctory. His sixth sense has sensed your disdain and insincerity towards him. Maybe you may despise him in your heart and look down on him, but as long as you don't say it to his face, then he. I won't face you face to face, keep my distance from each other, and I can't stay. Don't go too far with him, but going too far will inevitably lead to great disaster. This is the characteristic of Northeast China.
If you don't pay attention to this kind of communication rules and games. Then it's hard to squeeze into their circle, and they will hold you together until you do it. Because you broke this communication rule, you cheated him, fooled him and left him scarred, so their revenge was fierce.
Then you can't make friends. They have one characteristic. It is a common phenomenon in Northeast China. They won't avenge a gentleman for ten years. They can't wait so long. They are Le Monde, reporting live.
You are wrong about this, he will beat you down on the spot, you must understand. Don't stop until you understand!
Even if he can't stand it, the northeast people often say that he wants to pretend to be a grandson and I want to pretend to be clear. How should I behave as a grandson? I must make it clear, understand.
If you bully him and fool him, he may not be able to fight back then. When the time is ripe, then he specifies that he should be happy and get back at you sooner or later, which is also one of their characteristics.
There are clever and cunning people in the northeast, and everything is divided into two. In that province, there are also very few people who don't do serious things, talk nonsense and cheat on eating and drinking, just like you said. People like that can't get along in the northeast circle and have a bad reputation. No one cooperated with him. What we are talking about today is the situation of the mainstream northeast people.
Bless everyone! see you again
Coincidentally, my best classmate is from Siping, Northeast China. According to my feeling, there are not so many "playboys" in Northeast China as in other provinces. As long as you take him seriously, he will become an "iron brother" more seriously! There is nothing to pay attention to when making friends. The only thing you need to pay attention to is that you are "sincere" to your friends. If you deliberately make more friends, you will often not make any friends.
Knowing this, the next step will be easy. Sincerity to sincerity, truth to truth. Everything will be fine.
Just a reminder, Northeasters are not stupid! If you want to take advantage of the northeast people, you will be self-defeating, and you may get more than one bargained for. There may be no chance to regret it!
First, if the northeast people are really treating you well, you should never play with your mind. Northeasters have both advantages and disadvantages. They think that if they are really good to others, they will be good to others. In fact, this idea is wrong. If the other party doesn't treat them sincerely, the Northeasters simply don't talk to the jugglers, or simply break off diplomatic relations.
Second, people in Northeast China love face and value face more than anything else. As the saying goes, it is a pity to die. Even close friends, once they don't give the Northeast people "face", are also very troublesome, and the two sides are prone to friction and even fighting. Try to be kind to others at ordinary times, because of a face, the two are likely to break up in discord or not meet.
Third, Northeasters are generous, but they are also easy to "bear grudges"! This boldness is an advantage, but it also has disadvantages. Not everyone deserves it. Sometimes, Northeasters don't realize this, but feel that others are playing tricks on them and will involuntarily keep this "account" in mind unless the two sides make things clear.
Answer: What should we pay attention to when dealing with people from the Northeast?
Answer: I tell you, I am from the northeast, from Liaoning, Kyrgyzstan and Heilongjiang provinces. I am humble, kind, cheerful and sincere to my friends. Northeast men are open-minded. They do things one by one, two by two. They treat each other with sincerity and are foolproof. Northeasters are not stupid, but they are actually annoying, so they are called Northeast Tigers. Ask how to associate with the northeast, and the northeast is the best. But it is not easy to take advantage of the northeast people.
Northeast women are called "women men", hardworking and capable, and they are both good hands inside and outside. It is a lifelong blessing for a young man to marry a girl from the northeast, but the female man from the northeast is also very stubborn.
In short, be honest when making friends with people from the Northeast, and don't be insincere and difficult to make friends with. "
The most important thing to pay attention to when dealing with the northeast people is: never pretend.
Because the northeast people can pretend better than you. For example, if a friend in the Northeast invites you to dinner, don't rob him when you check out. Even if there are still many bills to borrow this month, Northeast Old Railway won't let you pay this bill. You look down on me by rushing to pay the bill. Can I not entertain you when you come to the northeast? This relationship is not only a matter of face, but also the generous and good face of the northeast people, which can not be lost in the cashier's booth.
So the most common thing in restaurants in Northeast China is that two people who are drinking in front of the cashier tear it up and say: Who are you talking to? Don't tear it with me. Today, this account must be counted!
Friends in the south may laugh at the vulgarity, inappropriateness and illiteracy in the northeast. However, the cuteness of the northeast people may also be mentioned in these rudeness. The rough man who drinks stagger will turn around and shout at the top of his voice: whose child is this? Look at it quickly. The vegetable runner will burn the child to death!
Not only on the wine table, but also in actual communication. When talking and doing things with people from the Northeast, just say one thing and two things, and don't get the whole thing wrong. Those empty heads may fool the Northeast for a while, because he believes what you said is true, but once you are caught, you may lose the Northeast forever. If I meet someone with a bad temper, I may have to teach you a lesson.
In addition to good face, the biggest feature of the northeast people is that they are not afraid of things and dare to fight. Therefore, when dealing with the northeast people, we should pay attention to making money with kindness. Give way if you can, avoid if you can't, and don't be hard until you have to.
The third feature of the Northeast people is that they love to drink, but their capacity for alcohol is not top-notch. Northeasters are bright and clear, and they don't return until they are drunk. Therefore, it is best to drink alcohol when interacting with the northeast people, and it is best to have a certain amount of alcohol to accompany him to drink as drunk as a fiddler. For friends who can make him drunk, the northeast people will feel more real, more friendly and look up.
I'm from the northeast, and I really think so. I feel that the northeast people don't pay attention to anything. That's why we need to pay attention to something deliberately. Communication is natural. With the long time of communication, you will love the Northeastern more, because you are honest and frank, a Northeastern, generous and sincere.