Help the child stay away from spending his friends!
1. Don't make friends by flattery.
People who always pay special attention to what you have and let you give him as friends; Whether you like it or not, the person who takes your things directly doesn't really like you. When they find you useless, they are likely to alienate you for the first time. Don't please others for fear of losing a relationship. The relationship you get is not true friendship.
2. bravely say "no" to unreasonable demands.
Courageously say "no" to requests that go beyond principles or unreasonable demands. If a person refuses his request, he won't play with you anymore, so a true friend will understand you and won't be forced. If a classmate targets you for no reason, he must have the courage to go back. Campus bullying begins with the first weakness.
Don't keep a secret for the bad guys.
Everyone has secrets. Mom and dad are glad that you can share secrets with your friends, which shows that you are thinking and growing. But you must remember that if something makes you uncomfortable, you must say it. We won't keep secrets for the bad guys.
4. Stay away from people who consume you
Stay away from people who consume you, and the emotions between classmates will be contagious. Those who are always complaining about everything, get along with each other for a long time, and you will become anxious, pessimistic and blindly ask for it. Take your help for granted. If people should stay away from you, stay away from them. Your kindness and true feelings should be left to worthy friends.
5. Don't be afraid of losing "friends"
Different circles don't need to enter each other by force, everyone has different ideas, and everyone's views can be referenced, but they don't have to obey blindly, and they don't have to fight for a high or low level. Friendship goes both ways. Others have the right not to play with you, and you also have the right to choose who not to play with. You don't need to invite everyone into your life and get along with people with the same frequency.
6. Keep the bottom line of your body.
Stay away from friends who let you smoke and drink or take you to do dangerous things. If you are near Zhu Zhechi, those who are near Mexico are black. Even if a good friend can't help you make progress, he will never instigate you to do things that don't match your age and stay away from physical contact that makes you uncomfortable, even if he is your best friend.
Strengthen oneself
Make friends with people with positive energy. It is difficult for people with 50 personalities to make friends with people with 90 personalities, because the two sides are not equal. This inequality is reflected in knowledge, quality, three views and other aspects, that is, "if you can't speak, you must enrich your ability and keep learning, so as to attract excellent friends to bloom and butterflies will come naturally."