The difference between confidante and lover: different meanings, different positioning, and different genders.

1. Different meanings:

Confidante: The highest level of friendship between men and women without emotional factors. Also called a confidant, she is a female friend who is independent in spirit, equal in soul, and able to achieve profound sexual harmony.

Lover: the person you admire, the object of love or the object of marriage.

2. Different positioning:

Confidante: Due to the particularity of men and women, it is known as a "fourth type of emotion" that is free from family, love and friendship. , the highest state of heterosexual friendship is a relatively close female friend.

Lover: one of the couple; one of the men and women in love; the loved one.

3. Gender differences:

Confidante: "Red" refers specifically to women.

Lover: No gender reference, refers to the person you love.

Extended information:

A confidante is the opposite of a woman’s “intimate friend”.

For people of the opposite sex who are similar in age, they can be called confidantes; while those with a large age gap are generally called "year-old friends."

How different countries call "lover":

1. Lithuanians use "beer" as a metaphor.

2. Polish people compare their lovers to "biscuits."

3. The French call their loved ones "little cabbages."

4. The Ziku people’s highest nickname for their lover is “my little garlic”.

5. Greek girls like to be called "like gold bugs".

6. The Bretons excitedly compare their lovers to "my little herring".

7. Romantic Viennese people use "my little snail" to call their beloved.

8. The most abundant expression of love in Czech Bohemia is "my mother's soul".

9. The Garniura people of Yugoslavia use "my grass" to express their most passionate feelings for their lovers.

Reference materials: Baidu Encyclopedia - Lover

Baidu Encyclopedia - Confidante