When I make friends, I first look at his filial piety (or kindness). After all, in this cruel social center, it is more important for people to have a kind heart. A person's respect for his parents or elders can show his character. As the saying goes, "Zhu Dexiao comes first."
The second is a positive heart. Life is very long, so we need to calm down and think and deal with setbacks tenaciously. Everyone's life is bumpy, after all, a more positive heart is an important factor in our efforts to develop. More frustrated and brave, need courage and spiritual support.
Finally, there is an optimistic and cheerful heart. Happy life is the most important thing, don't be troubled by setbacks. An optimistic and cheerful heart helps us grow a lot.
These are the last three things I want to make friends with myself, which can also be said to be my own requirements.