1 Before liberation, a young writer named Mu Shiying caused quite a sensation at the time with his novel "The North and South Pole", which exposed the darkness of the old society. But after he entered Shanghai's ten-mile foreign market, he was influenced by the decadent lifestyle and actually sang about those lives of drunkenness and dreams. This is a perfect example of "the one who is close to the ink is the black". However, Mr. Lu Xun, a writer who also lived in Shanghai, always maintained his true nature as a revolutionary, using his pen as a sword and gun to wage an indomitable struggle against the dark society that he hated.
2 A friend has a skin disease that is easily contagious. Many parents tell their children not to be with him, but a little boy whose parents are both doctors continues to go to and from school with his friend. , play together. A kind-hearted neighbor reminded him, he said: "If I am healthy, I am not afraid of others being infected; if I am a good person, I am not afraid of others teaching me to be bad, because good people will not learn to be bad." Sure enough, until he got sick, The sick friend recovered, and the little boy was not infected. After reading this story, I was confused: Will those who are close to ink necessarily be black?
3 Ouyang Xiu was a famous writer and politician in the Northern Song Dynasty. When he was an officer in Yingzhou, he had a young man named Lu Gongzhu under his command. Once, Ouyang Xiu's good friend Fan Zhongyan passed by and visited his home. Ouyang Xiu invited Lu Gongzhu to entertain guests with him. During the dinner, Fan Zhongyan said to Lu Gongzhu: "It's great that you can work by Ouyang Xiu's side. You should ask him more about composition and poetry skills." After that, under Ouyang Xiu's words and deeds, Lu Gongzhu's writing skills improved. Gotta go fast.
4 "Zhang Heng is a well-known figure in our household. He invented the seismograph and also conducted research in astronomy, physics, etc. Zhang Heng had many confidants in his youth, such as Ma Rong, Wang Fu, Cui Yuan, etc. These They were all very talented young people at that time, especially Cui Yuan, who had studied astronomy, mathematics, and calendar very early. Zhang Heng often studied problems with him and exchanged ideas. Zhang Heng's further study of astronomy, physics and other sciences was influenced by Cui Yuan had a lot of influence.
5 In ancient my country, there was a story about "Meng's mother moved three times". Mencius originally lived next to an artist, but Mencius couldn't stop listening, so she moved to a butcher. At that time, Mencius often went to watch pigs being slaughtered. It was not until he moved to the school for the third time that Mencius concentrated on studying and became a great thinker. Although this story means to look down on the working people, it illustrates this truth - -Those who are close to ink will be black. Confucius' "You must choose your neighbors when you live, and you must find friends when you travel", which also illustrates this truth. "Ink" is pervasive, and those who are close to ink will be black.
Those who are close to Zhu will be red. , the pinyin of jìn zhū zhě chì, jìn mò zhě hēi comes from: Therefore, the color near Zhu is red, the color near ink is black; if the sound is harmonious, the sound will be clear, and if the shape is straight, the impact will be straight. , The cinnabar becomes red, the ink becomes black. It is a metaphor that being close to good people can make people become good, and being close to bad people can make people bad.
Allusion: Fu Xuan, a litterateur and philosopher of the Jin Dynasty, pointed out in "Prince Shaofu's Admonitions": "If you are close to vermillion, you will be red, if you are close to ink, you will be black; if the sound is harmonious, the sound will be clear, and if the shape is straight, the impact will be straight. "Tell people that a person living in a good environment will be affected by good things, and living in a bad environment will also be affected by bad effects, emphasizing the impact of the environment on people.
Those who are close to the ink are black, this is Yes, the people around you will subconsciously influence you. The ancients said: "Living with good people is like entering a house of orchids and not smelling their fragrance for a long time; living with unkind people is like entering a house of abalones and not smelling them for a long time." Smell it. "What we are talking about here is the principle of making friends.
Similarly, if a person is in a bad social environment for a long time, he will inevitably be affected by the bad environment over time, that is, he who is close to black will be black. This is what we want to argue. The argument is that those who are close to Mo are not necessarily black. This is a saying that has been around for a long time. It is still necessary to mention it because some people have put forward the idea that if we do not understand this issue clearly, it will be easy to misunderstand it. Some of us go astray without knowing it.
First of all, the essence of this sentence is the relationship between people and the environment. The ancients noticed this and proved it.
It is absolutely correct. The widely circulated story of Meng's mother moving three times and choosing neighbors to live in is one such example. When Mencius was very young, he liked to play with the children next door, and the children next door were playboys, indolent and indolent. Gradually, under their influence, Mencius also became lazy and unmotivated.
Meng’s mother was very angry and decided to move her family to a village ten miles away, regardless of her old age and illness and the difficulty of relocation. There are poor children there. Under their influence, Mencius got rid of his bad habits one by one. He worked hard and made progress, and finally became a famous man. Just imagine if Meng’s mother hadn’t chosen his neighbors and Mencius had continued to associate with those wealthy children, would he have achieved the achievements we see today? It can be seen that a person's healthy growth is inseparable from the healthy environment in which he lives. ?