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What about unsociable children?
Socialization is also an indispensable part of us. No matter in life or in career, at school or at work, people are indispensable to friends. Good friendship is beneficial to people's life. Therefore, children must learn to make friends, and parents also have the responsibility to help their children guide them. Parents can learn these three tricks so that their children can easily gain friendship.

1. Encourage children to make friends.

When children are unwilling to make friends, parents should not blame them, let alone compare them with other children, which makes them even more unwilling to make friends. We can take some encouraging measures. For example, we can tell children that if they want to play with other friends, they can get the toys or sweets they want tonight. Slowly, children will try to break through themselves and gain friendship.

2.? create conditions

Now many children are only children, and there is only one child at home. The time spent in contact with peers is much less, and it is normal not to know how to communicate and play with other friends. Parents should create more conditions for their children to play with their peers. In their spare time, parents can take their children to public entertainment places such as parks, amusement parks and supermarkets in the community, so as to increase their chances of getting in touch with friends and let them gradually learn to like making friends. Parents can often invite their children to their homes and let them be small masters. While taking care of other children, children may be willing to open their hearts and communicate with others, thus gaining friendship.

3.? Teach children how to share.

Many friendships are established through sharing. When we have a bag of candy, we share it with others, which can gradually increase the relationship with friends and narrow the distance, and then friendship is established. Although many children grow up in a loved family, parents should also teach their children to share more with others outside, so that they can be happy and make friends.

We want our children to get friendship when they grow up. We need to guide them how to make friends and how to get friendship. This is a lesson for children, so we should teach it well.