Although we often say that true love should not be limited to age, that is, don't worry too much because of age, it is indeed a factor that has to be considered in real life. Even if there are still many unmarried or even single women in their thirties, they can't be like women in their twenties. After all, there will be more things to consider when you get older. Next, I will talk about how women in their thirties and forties should find boyfriends.

First, follow your heart. I know many people think that if a woman doesn't fall in love at this age, she shouldn't continue to be picky, so she can only leave herself in the end and her choices are getting worse and worse. But personally, I think this statement is not correct. All of us should not lower our standards again and again because we are old. We can follow our feelings, follow our own wishes, and choose someone who has feelings for us.

Second, pay more attention to family conditions. Of course, on the whole, at this age, everyone no longer values love so much, and they are not as silly and sweet as girls in their twenties. After all, they have been groping in society for some years and will certainly become more realistic. At this time, when choosing a love object, you may pay more attention to each other's family conditions. After all, love at this stage is all about getting married, and it is normal to be realistic.

Third, pay more attention to each other's abilities. Of course, some people care more about each other's abilities. When a woman chooses to be with a man, she definitely hopes that this man can become her own dependence. It is not necessarily said that the other party will definitely make a lot of money, but personal ability is still very important. After all, it will be reflected in many aspects of life. Being with a capable person will reduce a lot of unnecessary troubles in life and make you feel more at ease.