1, the normal distance of interpersonal communication is 1.2~3.6 meters; The distance between people who are unfamiliar for the first time is generally greater than 3.6 meters; 1.2 meters, belonging to the intimate range, generally suitable for family and familiar friends;
2. When you are with others, maintaining proper eye contact is a sign of respect for each other, and it also shows your confidence and posture. It is wrong not to look into each other's eyes or stare at each other. According to the research, one third of 1 minute conversation is the most appropriate.
Don't listen to the other person in a hurry, whether you are smart or not, don't want to listen or make a noise, and don't interrupt others.
4. Don't just talk about yourself.
Don't disdain to listen to others.
Say the 15 commandment:
1, don't chatter alone. "To be a talker, you must first become a listener." If you only talk about yourself and don't care about other people's feelings, no one may want to be the "target" for you to release your opinions.
2. Don't be silent. When you always don't participate in other people's topics, either you disdain, or your knowledge is too narrow, or your inferiority complex is at work. It is necessary to overcome these in a targeted manner and join other people's discussions.
3. Don't be stubborn and perverse.
4. Don't use the tone of lesson.
5. Don't use diplomatic language.
6. Don't be a "poisonous tongue".
7. Don't complain.
8. Don't be arrogant.
9. Don't cry roast meat.
10, don't think you know everything.
Don't expect others to agree with you.
12, don't be an opposition expert.
13, don't be frivolous, hurt people by speaking or disrespect people by speaking.
14, don't admire yourself.
15, don't be rude.