You are very similar to a friend of mine, and she is just like you. She answers everything you say. As time goes on, fewer and fewer people speak. You are not as thin-skinned as paper, and you are embarrassed to communicate with others. You just don't know what to say. I'll tell you the simplest way: if you want others to make friends with you and have more with you, you can say that they are interested. Once you talk about it, he will get excited. You just pander and show that you are listening and interested, then there is nothing to talk about between you. When you start talking, don't talk about things or topics that interest you. You don't know what they are talking about. You can ask them what you don't know. Don't pretend you don't know, and you can only go home in the end. Ask them what they are talking about, and then try to blend in with their atmosphere and talk to them about your point of view.