No one is absolutely introverted. Everyone has two sides. Some introverts have nothing to say to strangers, but nothing to say to familiar people. Introverts just stay in their comfort zone for too long. When you walk out of this circle, you will find a different new world. You can tell your attitude towards life and yourself from your clothes. Pay attention to your hair, face, clothes and so on. In any case, men and women will have a good impression on people who have a clean first impression. When you refine yourself, you will naturally attract the attention of others. In this way, you can see more about how people outside communicate, thus expanding your social scope and experience; Introversion has nothing to do with slowness and laziness. You can be introverted or even autistic, but you must not be lazy, sloppy, ignorant of aesthetics, self-love, or dressed in hardcover. Being chased is a woman's need, and chasing is a man's necessity, because men should be the one who takes the initiative to attack, both physically and socially. As a man, you should show your sincerity. For example, you can sign up for group trips and volunteer activities. If you know English, you can take part in the English corner. If you like playing badminton, you can always find friends to play with, or you can go directly to the gym and find someone to play automatically. Trust me, you can easily find someone to play with. Learn love communication skills and create topics. Introverts don't like to talk, but they are nervous when they see the opposite sex and can't chat. Therefore, we must learn to change ourselves in life and work, and try our best to actively communicate with colleagues. Try to be extroverted, not that introverts are bad, but when you learn to be extroverted, you will find that you can meet more people and have a higher interest in talking. Happy friends will let you find your yearning mood slowly! But often because of personality reasons, even if I meet a boy I like, I dare not speak, and I will only choose a secret love. So have enough confidence in yourself! Confident girls tend to attract boys more. If you like it, be brave and let the other person know.
First of all, you should force yourself to be an extrovert. When you meet friends or other people, you should take the initiative to talk. Don't have a cold war without talking to others, so others will have a bad impression of themselves and can't make friends, so it is impossible to fall in love. So be sure to talk more.
Personality is just unwilling or not good at communicating with people, but it does not prevent them from finding the other half in life. Cheerful personality, natural speech, active communication, charm, and high success rate of getting rid of orders. However, people who are low-key and introverted are not irregular. It is easy to know what is the core competitiveness that attracts each other. For boys, excellent work ability, kindness and sureness, for girls, gentleness, kindness, understanding and understanding do not need too many words to express, and action is the best performance, which is what introverted personality is good at and the most popular.
Here I want to say a very practical method. At the same time, it is also effective for introverted boys, that is, to overcome inferiority and get rid of social fears. Do these two things, and your interpersonal communication will break through the obstacles. In fact, if you think about it, no one is absolutely introverted. Everyone has two sides. Some introverts have nothing to say to strangers, but nothing to say to familiar people. Introverts just stay in their cognitive safety comfort zone for too long. When you jump out of this circle, you will find that.
For introverted girls, if they want to take off the bill, they can take off the bill through blind date or friend introduction. In fact, sometimes it has nothing to do with personality.