The lower the level of people, the more likely they are to be friends with whom?
People often say: "Birds of a feather flock together, and people flock together." It's true. The kind of person you are will attract the kind of people you like, and the kind of people you will like to make friends with. Your cognition, your three views, and your structure determine your choices. As the saying goes: "If you have different ambitions, you will not be able to work together." People with the same ambitions are more likely to come together; people who have no ambitions are more likely to come together.
People with low levels have poor cognition and do not have many ideals and goals. Most people at low levels are content with the status quo, and most live a relatively poor life. People at different levels have different pursuits. High-level people have dreams, life plans and pursuits, and pursue ideological considerations and prosperity. And low-level people pursue relatively mid- to low-end things, and it can even be said that they have no pursuit at all. Low-level people are more likely to gather friends who have no ideals and are just messing around. It has to be said that the lower the level of people, the more they like to make friends with these three types of people. Don't believe it, no wonder they are becoming less and less promising. People who have no ideals are just dawdling
Having dreams and ideals will create work. Ideals and ideals are the goals a person strives for and the life he needs. Really high-level people have cognition, pursuit, and ideals, and will work hard without any effort. They will devote a lot of time and energy to fighting and will not waste time. For high-level people, it is true that "every inch of time is worth an inch of gold", and time is very precious. They don’t have time to waste on useless social media and have no friends. The friends they make are all people with dreams and ideals. They are busy with various jobs and sometimes encourage each other's morale.
People with low levels do not have faster cognition, have few pursuits, and live in chaos. For low-level people, time makes them lonely and boring. Therefore, they spend a lot of time and energy on useless social media. The friends they make are also people who have no ideals like themselves, who are just hanging around, living a decent life, and wasting their youth. If you want to be successful, you must avoid people who have no ideals and hang around all day long, because they will drag you down and make you lose your enthusiasm and morale. People who are not professional in their feelings and play ambiguous
Emotions should not be mixed with hypocrisy, nor should they be ravaged. In a relationship, one should be single-minded and maintain single-mindedness and loyalty. The higher the level of people, the more attentive they are to their feelings, and they don't do things in a perfunctory way or tamper with them. When you love, love in a down-to-earth manner; when you don't like, you will separate in a relaxed and unrestrained way. It is not easy to be indecisive, tread two boats, and have no idea about relationships. Usually, the lower the level of people, the less moral bottom line and standards they have, the more they like to ravage feelings, are not sincere, and do not conscientiously complete things. In fact, they don't understand what's wrong with not having a relationship, and they still feel that they are extraordinary and can have a romantic encounter in life.
Incorrect values ????and incorrect views on emotions have resulted in a lack of expertise in treating emotions. People who are not emotionally dedicated will make friends who are also emotionally incompetent. Perhaps, they were originally the same kind of people and had the same feelings for each other. Perhaps, they influence each other and bring bad effects to each other. If you want to have a happy relationship, you need to be loyal first, avoid people who ravage your relationship, and be careful of your emotional outlook being biased. People who blame others and have negative energy
Most low-level people are relatively poor and live a very miserable life. Their dissatisfaction with life and dissatisfaction with life created their complaints. He blames others for no reason, even curses, and is full of negative energy. People who complain more and more often make friends who are complainers. Perhaps, they both love to blame others, so they can express themselves in the same language and talk together. When one person complains, the other person will continue to fan the flames and continue to acknowledge it. When such friends are together, most of the topics they chat about are complaining about the unfairness of luck and dissatisfaction with life, but never consider what they have failed to do well and that they need to work hard.
The more you stay with people with negative energy, the more negative energy will accumulate, and eventually both parties will become very depressed and negative people. A truly high-level person has a cheerful heart and is full of positive social energy. This positive social energy is like a beam of light that brings energy to the people around you.
If you want to have a positive attitude, you need to work hard to get close to people with positive energy in society, and actively avoid people who complain about others, so as not to be overwhelmed by negative energy.
As the saying goes: "Those who are close to vermillion are red, and those who are close to ink are dark." The kind of person you associate with will gradually become what kind of person you become, so making friends is also very important in life. One thing. As an adult, you must know what kind of friends you should make and what kind of friends you should not make. You must not make friends with people who live their lives without ideals, people who are emotionally weak and ravage their emotions, and people who are resentful and negative. There is still a long way to go in life. You must first improve your level, and then make friends with high-level people, instead of getting along with low-level people.