Ask more questions: foreigners are not afraid to ask, but they are afraid that you don't know how to pretend to understand. Don't understand him with the way of thinking of domestic people, and play the tricks that domestic people think.

Many members wrote that they didn't know what to say to foreigners. Cultural exchange is the best topic, which can focus on topics closely related to life, such as eating habits, holiday customs (which festivals are important to him, which festivals are important to you, what to do during the holidays, and so on). ), wedding ceremony, children's education, sexual health and so on. In communication, you will always find something new to ask and learn. Even if making friends with him is not successful, you can learn a lot of new things by seizing the opportunity, which can be used in the next communication, and gradually making friends becomes more and more relaxed and natural.

Patience: When unpleasant things happen, please don't jump to conclusions easily, because this is probably a misunderstanding caused by cultural differences. In addition, in order to avoid misunderstanding between the two sides as much as possible, it is best to say what you have to say directly. Foreigners speak straight, and he wants you to speak straight. If you want to stimulate him by making him guess his sincerity, or by making him jealous, you have done a very unwise thing. Understand each other as much as possible through patient communication. Patience also includes listening carefully to what he says and watching what he writes. If you don't understand or are unhappy, just ask. Never judge and understand each other easily with the way of thinking of China people.