There are many ways to make friends. Many of us have many skills of making friends intentionally or unintentionally, and some even have principles of making friends. But many people communicate with others in a simple way, either unconsciously using or not using some skills. Talk about some long-term things. When chatting with people, we should make people feel that they have a little foresight, are thinking about the future, and are a person with long-term communication value, except for the trivial matters and shortcomings of their parents. Let people feel that you are a person with long-term considerations, increase the space for people to establish relationships with you, and transcend trivial matters.

Make friends with some useless people in front of you. People with status and resources want to associate, but in the eyes of others, you may not be an onion. The relationship between classmates developed in that era when it was never clear who was long and who was short, and later became a long-term social support. We should concentrate part of our energy on helping these less useful people and accumulate real value for the future. In fact, those who only associate with useful friends look more like villains.

Pay attention to social differences. Some people say that I have never had friends of civil servants, professors or investors in stocks, so I should consciously go to occasions, lectures and activities where these people may appear more often to associate with these friends. If I want to make friends with a friend in the investment field, maybe I can make friends with this person at an investment lecture.

Don't make promises to others casually. If you say yes, it means that 100% can do it. You don't have to say yes, and you may be embarrassed. I have a principle. First, I don't borrow money, except my relatives and friends. I will help you when you are seriously ill. I can do everything I promise, and I won't borrow what I say. A clear commitment can reduce your troubles and let others know how to deal with you.

Be close to knowledge or not know people you don't like. In this unknown, you may find that these people are actually my favorite. Sometimes you have to get in touch with people and knowledge you don't like-junior high school and high school, including going to college, are the most open times in our lives. A very important reason is that when primary and secondary schools arrive at universities, we have to learn a lot of knowledge. When we are working, one of the important reasons for getting old quickly is that we only choose what we like, thus becoming very paranoid. So if you choose 10 books, you choose 3 books you don't like and 7 books you like. If you can persist in this way, you will keep an open mind about the future.