Argument: The advantages of middle school students' extensive social communication outweigh the disadvantages/disadvantages outweigh the advantages.

The Sixth Rematch of Nanjiao Middle School in Sanyuan County, Shaanxi Province

Debate: The advantages of middle school students' extensive social communication outweigh the disadvantages.

Positive: Class 2, Grade 2 (1)(2).

Opposing party: Class Union of Grade 5 (10).

A positive argument: Yang Nan's opening argument;

With the progress of society, the communication frequency between middle school students and society is getting higher and higher, and there are more and more ways. We suggest that the advantages of middle school students' extensive social communication outweigh the disadvantages.

The advantages of middle school students' extensive social communication are: first, they can exchange ideas with more people and enhance some knowledge and ability; Second, more people can share their joys and sorrows, encourage progress, just like a mirror, reflecting their own gains and losses; Thirdly, we can overcome psychological barriers and improve our communicative competence in extensive social communication. The fourth is to choose good and follow it, and choose bad and change it. In extensive communication, we can personally experience and sum up experience, learn from their good and change their bad.

One of the most important things is to overcome one's psychological barriers and improve one's communicative competence. According to the survey report of psychological quality of Chinese Academy of Sciences, among middle school students, more than 80% are unsociable, 37% have obvious psychological abnormality, and 2 1% can't communicate with others. Many middle school students enter the university and the society. Because they can't adapt to the complex society, their psychology is seriously distorted and many social problems arise. The key to solve this problem is to actively cultivate middle school students' ability of extensive socialization, make them adapt to society and overcome psychological obstacles in the process of socialization.

However, it should be noted that the extensive socialization we are talking about is not promiscuity, but selective communication. Making friends suitable for middle school students' communication range is in line with this important feature of middle school students.

So to sum up, there are advantages and disadvantages for middle school students to socialize widely, but the advantages outweigh the disadvantages.

An opposing debate; Yue Qing's opening remarks;

We think that the disadvantages of middle school students' extensive social communication outweigh the advantages for three reasons.

First, the so-called "extensive" in China ancient Chinese dictionary refers to a wide range and field. May I ask whether the debater's "three religions and nine streams, evil friends and friends" are also within this scope? Lenin, the great revolutionary teacher, once said "study, study and study again", but never said "socialize and socialize again"! Poincare, an all-round mathematician, delivered a speech on "Life is constant struggle" in his last 20 days, but why didn't he say "Life is constant social interaction"?

Second, middle school students have a wide range of social activities, so they have to deal with society. Modern society is complicated and interpersonal relationships are more diverse. Where there is sunshine, there will be shadows. Middle school students are psychologically and physically immature and have no social experience. As fledglings, how can we see the other side hidden under some seemingly "kind" appearances with immature eyes? Criminals in society just use the immaturity of middle school students to make friends with them, thus inducing them to commit crimes and making them regret it. It's really shameful to make a mistake. Aren't you sad? In recent years, the crime rate of middle school students is on the rise. In 2002, it was reported that boys accounted for 85% and girls for 74% of the teenagers who committed crimes due to careless friends. Such an amazing number will not make us sigh where the mother's good child is. Where are the pillars of the country?

Third, from a materialistic point of view, there must be a limit to everything, otherwise it will be enough for you. Chemistry tells us that hydrogen can't be friends with air indefinitely, and mathematics tells us that a certain sequence also has this limit. Life tells us that there is a limit to socializing.

Liu Qing said that although the road of life is very long, it is often only a few steps. When it is tight, it is often when people are young.

To sum up, it fully proves that students' extensive social interaction does more harm than good in our opinion. Thank you.

Concluding statement of four arguments against:

We think that the disadvantages of middle school students' extensive social communication outweigh the advantages. There are three reasons.

First, the disadvantages of extensive social interaction: the social scope is very wide, and the characters are also various. Where there is sunshine, there is shadow. In the face of complicated social groups, confusing interpersonal relationships and unpredictable ways of the world, our sight will become blurred. Middle school students' friends will fall into nothingness if they contact the society too much.

Second, the harm of extensive social communication: psychological research shows that contemporary middle school students are obviously different from adults in physical development and psychological development. During this period, we are full of vitality and easy to accept new things, new knowledge and new ideas. However, due to our lack of social life experience, our world outlook and outlook on life are taking shape, our feelings are easily excited, we tend to look at problems one-sidedly, and our thoughts are still immature. Making friends is inevitably associated with social cults, which is a true portrayal of some social realities. In this way, the pure mind is polluted, the imagination is bound, and the hotbed of evil in the subconscious is hidden in the heart. The resulting juvenile delinquency is terrible.

Third, the middle school stage: it is decided that we should not socialize widely. The main task of middle school students is to learn scientific and cultural knowledge. Comrade Deng Xiaoping once pointed out that science and technology are the primary productive forces. This shows the importance of knowledge to a person's life. It is also beneficial to cultivate your own interest in learning and develop other interests on this basis. It is particularly important to deal with the relationship between learning and learning. Imagine that when we enrich ourselves with extensive knowledge, cultivate ourselves with noble sentiments and precipitate ourselves with rich experience, it is time for us to show our talents in the future. In the face of one diplomacy after another, you can face it calmly. Searching for the truth, goodness and beauty of human nature through suffocating air is an eternal theme in the second half of life. Then, why should we be so eager for success that we pick up sesame seeds and lose watermelon? Just like when you are dying of thirst, there is a cup of dirty water with some impurities and a cup of cool and nutritious sugar water in front of you. Do I have to put my hand into that cup of sewage and sing that I want to "clean" it first, then take its essence and discard its dross? It is definitely more harm than good for middle school students to socialize widely. Thank you.

The concluding speech of Zhao's object-limited debate competition;

A famous English writer once made a metaphor, "You have an apple, I have an apple, exchange with each other, and everyone has only one apple." If you have an idea and I have an idea and exchange it with each other, then each of us will have two ideas, even more than two. " This metaphor points out the most distinct advantages of people in communication.

On the road of our middle school students' growth, there will inevitably be shortcomings and deficiencies, which requires us to conduct extensive exchanges. Participate in a wide range of social activities. So as to get help from all sides, improve ourselves, make us study better, make our thoughts progress faster, and make our lives full of color.

The communication of middle school students should not be confined to our classmates, but should be extended to the society for extensive social communication. Narrow communication will not only make us middle school students lose more opportunities to learn from each other and communicate with each other, but also make us unable to integrate well into society in the future. Therefore, take part in a wide range of social activities and temper your strong will.

Collective is a big stove, and everyone is a piece of coal. Everyone wants to be warm, so they must light themselves up and put themselves in. The more coal there is, the more the fire burns, and the warmer the collective will be. The warm collective is not given by others, but gathered by everyone's enthusiasm and love. Each of us is a piece of coal, and the whole society is warmer. Therefore, we middle school students should widely participate in social activities and integrate into our warm collective.

Of course, we don't deny that our middle school students lack social experience, but we can't be flowers in the greenhouse. We should challenge the difficulties. Carry out social activities extensively, but also pay attention to making good friends and not making bad friends. It is necessary to communicate with middle school students.

Therefore, we think that the advantages of making friends among middle school students outweigh the disadvantages.