Hello, host,

First of all, I would like to ask you if you have ever heard of a saying - a dog cannot change its habit of eating shit.

Then I will formally analyze the question you raised with you.

I think you may need to have a very formal conversation with your boyfriend.

After all, you have a four-year relationship and maybe you haven’t made him feel that you really can’t. Accept what he is doing now.

So talk to him seriously and tell him that you really can't accept it.

If he still doesn't repent, it means that in his heart, your four-year relationship is not taken seriously.

And he is most likely tired of being with you.

But I hope you will think carefully about it, is such a man really worthy of your love?

Do you want to be with him? Marry, have children, and live in humiliation for the rest of your life?

You know that he is having an affair with the opposite sex through various channels, but you still have to accept it silently?

Now that true equality between men and women has almost been achieved, women also have the right to pursue happiness.

Be with him, compromise and be unhappy for the rest of your life. If you are willing to do this, you can do it.

If you don't want to do this, end it with him early.

It’s only 4 years, not to mention 4 years. If you accept him, you will be wronged for the rest of your life. Compared with a lifetime, is 4 years longer?

Marriage is a lifelong matter. Of course, marriage can also be divorced. But do you really want to marry him?

Have you ever really thought about what you love about him?

Think about it carefully. It is strongly recommended to have a formal chat with him. If he refuses to repent, don’t compromise.

Leave him and find a true happiness of your own.

In the end, no matter what, I sincerely hope that your love life can be happy.