Hello, it is not easy to reorganize the family. Faced with the second choice, because both sides may have children, especially children will not be accepted at first, because not their own children will have barriers in their hearts and will not accept themselves. This situation needs a process, because children don't accept themselves, because they are strangers, and they don't accept running-in slowly in the process of getting along with children, pay more love to care for them, let them feel the same love and care as their parents, and eliminate their psychological obstacles before they can accept themselves.

1, reorganize the family, because love will overcome all difficulties, and I would rather be troubled by my stepson than get married. The one who takes care of the children must act as a link and communicate with both sides more. Avoid misunderstanding. The so-called care is chaos. Tell your child that parents will be anxious and lose their temper if they care about you, whether they love it or not.

2. It is inevitable to encounter disputes in the family. When encountering problems, parents should first ask themselves a question. What we have to do is think of the children? If you just want to vent your anger, don't take action. Children are innocent, especially children under the age of ten. He can feel our kindness to children through his eyes and actions.

Even biological parents should manage their emotions and try not to beat and scold their children, not to mention that we are stepparents. Stepparents who are not good at doing things and want to be kind to their children will be mistaken for abusing their children and will be scolded viciously. Try to communicate with children. If you can't communicate, it should be managed by your biological parents to avoid misunderstanding.

4. Before entering the remarried family, both husband and wife and their children have established a solid alliance and close feelings. After forming a new family, parents may worry that their children are young and vulnerable, and they will be excluded and lost in the relationship with their stepparents, thus giving them an extra protection, thus forming the problem of sub-alliance.

In addition, the traditional concept requires stepparents to treat their stepchildren as their own children, which is also a misunderstanding. Stepparents can never whimsically "become" their children's biological parents and take their place.

6. Remarried families are very heterogeneous, because when they are integrated into a family, many times, there will be many problems to be solved for a stranger's new family. Therefore, in the process of getting along, we should slowly run in to create harmony, make our own efforts to change, and let children accept themselves. Because there are many people around us who get along well with our stepson. It is also because they love their children as their own. If their children get love and care, they will accept themselves, and when they get along with themselves, they will become a family and live in harmony.