Everyone will behave differently in front of the person they like. Even ordinary speech and chatting on social software will have very different attitudes. There are also many people who, even if they are very good at socializing, become inarticulate and at a loss in front of the people they like. When we chat with the person we like, we should maintain a normal and serious attitude so that the other person can sense that you are willing to chat with him.
When chatting with the person you like, you should maintain communication and pay attention to the details in the other person's words. Details are often where a person feels the deepest. If you can grasp the details of a chat, it will be easy to enliven the chat atmosphere, and it can also arouse the interest of the other party, so that the other party can talk to you. If you are chatting with the person you like and there are some topics in the other person's words that the other person is unwilling to open up about, you can tentatively ask about them, but if the other person is not willing to talk to you, you should avoid these topics in the following topics. Details are very important and often hide a lot of emotions of a person. When chatting with the person you like, if you grasp the details well, it will be easy to win the other person's heart.
When chatting with the people you like, you should also learn to cater to them. Talking about the things they like can easily lead to topics. Many people like to talk about the things they like with other people, and the more they talk, the more enthusiastic they become, especially girls. When girls talk about the things they like with other people, they will easily like each other and become good friends. When boys talk about the things they like with others, they will also talk about many professional topics and communicate with each other. Going with what someone likes is a great secret to falling in love and making friends. It is the beginning of a relationship, and it is also the best protector of a relationship. Although it is unlikely that two people have the same interests, after opening the topic and becoming familiar with each other, there will be many things that can be understood and discussed with each other.
Don’t chat too frequently and proactively with the person you like, so as not to bore the person you like. Many people are defenseless in front of the person they like, thinking about him all the time, and want to contact the other person all the time. But too frequent contact will make the person you like bored, and may even think that you are idle and have time to chat every day. For the person we like, we should suppress the joy in our hearts. If you always greet the person you like over and over again, the other person will regard it as harassment and will lose all good impressions of you. We need to keep in touch with the person we like and at the same time let him take the initiative to contact you and be willing to actively share his life and interests with you. When the person you like is willing to take the initiative with you, your relationship with him will make very good progress.
Chat with the people you like, that’s all I can help you with for now. The specific actual operation still depends on your own efforts.