Be sure to make friends with positive people 1. Embrace positive people. As the saying goes, those who are close to red are red and those who are close to ink are black. Being friends with positive people can form a cheerful character and an open-minded mentality. On the way to a better future, you must be with people of positive energy. Never hang out with negative people, they will only wear down your mind and make you resentful. Being friends with such people will make you lose your motivation to move forward and your enthusiasm for life. 2. People who are positive and have dignified character are people with positive energy. They will not worry about trivial matters in life, and will not care about others. They are as active as a river, as open-minded as the earth, and as cheerful as the sun. Make friends with positive people, they will help you in your future, they will be your strong arms when you want to give up, and they will be your guiding light when you face difficulties. With them you will discover the beauty of the world and the true love of the world. Don’t be with people with negative energy. They are the dark side of life, the shackles of success and the prison of failure. They go with the flow and take things as they come. Being friends with them will only make you tunnel vision and negative. 3. Embrace positive people and embrace the sunshine. Life is only a few autumns, and you should not stop until you get drunk. We should work with positive people to establish correct and positive values ??and outlook on life. Use positive energy to dispel the haze in your heart and break down the negative barriers. To make friends, you need to make friends with positive energy. 2. Associate with people with positive energy. Some people say that the kind of person you hang out with will determine the kind of person you become. To make friends, choose your circle of friends, be selective in your interactions, make good friends, and avoid bad friends. Making a good friend can make you happy and help you in times of trouble. If you accidentally make bad friends, your life will become bad and messy, and it may even become a disaster at some point. "Guarding the World" says: "To associate with evil sycophants is like a snowman in a pool of ink. Even if it melts into water, its color will become more and more dirty. To associate with a gentleman is like coal being put into an incense burner. Even though it turns to ashes, its fragrance will never be extinguished." This means that associating with treacherous and flattering people is like white snow entering an ink pond. Although it melts into water, its color becomes dirtier; getting along with an upright person is like charcoal entering an incense burner, although it is burned into water. It's ashes, but its fragrance is still smellable. If you make friends with different people, you will receive different influences and influences. As the saying goes, those who are close to vermillion are red, and those who are close to ink are black. Those who follow the butterflies will see fragrant flowers, while those who follow the flies will only reach dirty ditches. Zeng Guofan said: "Life or failure is all about the virtuousness of your friends. Don't be careless." Your circle can be small, but it must be clean; you can have few friends, but it must be of good character. It’s not about having many friends, it’s about whether we can share the same path, and whether we can know each other’s hearts. If we share the same path, we can act together, and if we know each other’s hearts, we can trust each other. If you want to be smart, then you have to be with smart people, and you will be wiser; if you want to be excellent, then you have to be with good people, and you will be outstanding. As the saying goes: Birds of a feather flock together, and people flock together. Make a friend who appreciates you, who will comfort you and help you when you are down and out; make a friend with positive energy, who will accompany you and encourage you when you are depressed. Make a friend who leads the way for you, willing to be your stepping stone, and lead you through the mud and fog; make a friend who is willing to criticize you, always remind you, supervise you, and let you always discover your shortcomings. Mr. Lu Xun said: "When a person reaches a certain age, he must throw away four things: meaningless drinks, people who don't love you, relatives who look down on you, and hypocritical friends." In today's realistic and impetuous society, sincerity The word "two words" is very rare. Some hypocritical friends will spring up around you like mushrooms after a rain when you are prosperous. But at this time, you have to be wary, they may be smiling tigers, praising you in front of others, but hurting you in the back. When you are in trouble, they will fall out of favor faster than flipping through a book. When you ask for help, they will say: I'm sorry I didn't see it at the time. A friend in need is a friend indeed. Under hardship and disaster, it is always easy to see through people's hearts. And when you find that the friendship is not worth maintaining after dating a friend, you should give up decisively.

Learn to perceive your own value, as evidenced by courage and integrity. There is no need to boast or borrow the fame of others, and there is no need to show off property, qualifications, titles or past achievements to increase your own weight. Communicate with others openly, simply, directly, and without pretentiousness. Don’t go to extremes and don’t require everything to be “win or lose.” We do not divide everything into two, good or bad, yes or no. Instead, we think about problems in a continuous, orderly and layer-by-layer manner, and have the ability to distinguish and detect the similarities and differences between situations.