Rule one, don't make friends with the opposite sex. As a wife, you should behave yourself. Today, you should call me your best friend, and tomorrow, you will be a dry brother. This is not good. If others make friends and go out for a cup of milk tea, it may ruin your marriage. People are separated. After you have a husband, don't add people you shouldn't, let alone chat. Don't think that he is more romantic than your husband and will make you happy. People tease you not because you are attractive, but because you are easy to take the bait. A competent wife will not provoke a man with chaotic circles and complicated social relations, and will not do anything harmful to the family. You know, making friends will ruin your life.
The second rule, don't be cold and violent, let alone talk about divorce. There is no perfect marriage and partner in this world. If there are contradictions, they will be cold and violent, and they will not communicate with their husbands for a long time. No matter how enthusiastic he is, he will be chilling because of your indifference. More importantly, don't threaten your husband with divorce. This is a taboo in marriage. Marriage is not a house. Divorce is light, but deadly enough to ruin your intimate relationship. You talk too much, be careful that your husband really doesn't want you, and it's no use crying about your father and mother.
Third, respect your husband when you go back. Men value dignity and face more than money, so don't always step on his pain points, belittle and discredit him at will regardless of the occasion, compare him with others for a while, expose his shortcomings in front of outsiders for a while, and leave no face at all. You have to understand that husband and wife are like a mirror. You look down on them, but they are actually belittling themselves.
A smart wife knows how to protect her husband's dignity and respect him, so that he will love you more. Marriage needs the joint efforts and management of both husband and wife, and it also needs tolerance and understanding.