Opponents should think that the Internet is a virtual world. Isn't it ridiculous that other debaters tell the truth and know each other in the virtual world? How can we become bosom friends? What is needed is long-term communication and mutual understanding. Online dating simply can't meet the above conditions. From the disadvantages and harm of the network, the instability and unreality of the network, and the conditions of becoming a bosom friend, it is proved that it is impossible to become a bosom friend on the network, only.