? Of course, I believe everyone has had it. Whenever I feel that my friends are fake, I have this mentality.

If a person wants to live well in this society, it is necessary to make friends, but there are always times when we feel that we don’t want to make friends anymore because we are very tired. Sometimes I really don’t understand, why should I make friends? Because many friends are just casual acquaintances and don’t know how to communicate at all. For example, if you make a friend, you leave his phone number, QQ number, and WeChat. But in today’s society, you generally can’t make calls on mobile phones. Even if you chat on QQ and WeChat, you will just chat for one or two words, and then there will be no words. Now, I think such friends are meaningless. At this time, I really don’t want to make friends anymore, I just want to keep my current friends. But what is essential to making friends.

I feel like I am in a state where I really don’t want to make friends right now, because I have just arrived in a strange environment as a freshman, and I feel that my overall condition is particularly bad, and so do the people in our class. I don’t know a few of them, and our counselor made me not want to teach my friends anymore, because under the guidance of our counselor, the people in our class became overly polite, which made me feel like we were all classmates like plastic flowers. It's just love, no deep friendship at all. However, we are people who are going to spend four years together, and I still have to make friends with them, so I still have to overcome my own mentality and proactively make friends with them, because they are the next four Someone I have to face regularly during the year.

?The psychological state of not wanting to make friends occurs all the time, especially in a strange environment, but we must overcome it. We can have this mentality, but we cannot let it It has always occupied our hearts and we have to overcome it because making friends is a big factor in your survival in this society.