For example, over AUO, lovers are dissatisfied. The two are close enough, but they haven't felt love yet, and they can be good friends for life, but the people who have sex just can't, let alone like it or not, just don't feel right. There is no restriction of realistic conditions here, but I just don't feel in place.
Another example is love. Love between the opposite sex is a very strange thing. Two people who you think are absolutely impossible just tied the knot. Two people you think are a good match, they look at each other in the wrong way, and even have a sense of rejection in their bones. Anyone can do it, but that person just can't.
Frequent contact between the opposite sex will inevitably lead to these feelings.
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friendship
Regardless of the same sex or the opposite sex, as long as they are in frequent contact and chat, they will definitely make progress emotionally. Maybe they didn't like each other at first. After a long time, the relationship has undergone subtle changes, trust has increased, and there are more likes. Many aspects also have tacit understanding and understanding. Trust because of familiarity, and rely because of habit.
Some people of the opposite sex get to know each other, but they don't know each other, and they never deal with each other, so they become mutual protection. There must be a close connection during this period. It is these frequent contacts that make two people's attitudes change slightly, from unpleasant to good, from disgusting to ok. This process is mutual acceptance, recognition and docking.
There is no feeling in the world, it is out of nothing, including friendship, and so on.
We socialize, or get together, to expand our contacts and maintain old relationships. In fact, parties, celebration banquets, family dinners, etc. Your presence belongs to the category of emotional contact, but these methods are subtle and accommodating. For example, you can come to these occasions to relax, have a certain purpose, and even make friends naked.
In a word, it is useless without connection. As long as people are in frequent contact with each other, the sense of trust or dependence will be improved.
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More friends than lovers.
Some boyfriends and girlfriends are just so strange. No matter how many years we get along, we just can't break this cage: friends are above friends, and lovers are not satisfied.
Some friends of the opposite sex meet one day, and they can establish a love relationship, even a flash marriage is possible, but there is still an embarrassment in the world called "infinite proximity and never intersection".
They know each other very well and know everything about each other. They even know their place in each other's hearts better than anyone else. Others think there must be something wrong with themselves, but in fact there is nothing wrong with them. In the eyes of many people, they will definitely come together, but in fact, it is like this: being friends is ok, but falling in love is absolutely not.
They can eat together, watch movies and help each other when they are in trouble. But when they meet men and women, they will immediately adopt an isolated attitude. No means no, there is basically no reason to talk about it. The identity between two people is basically locked in an undeveloped position. It is impossible to retreat, and there is no chance of further progress. This is not stubbornness, but feeling really out of place.
There are frequent heterosexual contacts, and there are not a few cases in which "there are more friends than friends, but lovers are dissatisfied". They know better than anyone the meaning of this relationship and what they want, and will not be easily influenced and influenced by the outside world. Even if others boo, this relationship is difficult to enhance intimacy.