There are many kinds of social barriers among contemporary young people, but the following ones are the most typical.

1. I have made an appointment with my friends to go there tomorrow, but I always feel uneasy the first night. This uneasiness is because I have an extremely strong desire to not go.

2. Every time I hear the phone ringing, I feel like it’s a torment. Why do I need to call? Why don’t I send a WeChat message?

3. Every time a guest comes to the house, he seems surprised. Although I don’t hate anyone, I always feel that the air has become thinner and I don’t know where to put my hands and feet.

4. Before meeting someone, I organized a lot of things I wanted to say, but after actually meeting them, I probably didn’t say a word of what I wanted to say.

5. Appears to have no sense of presence in every situation, as if it has its own invisibility skills.

6. Regarding chatting, when you have nothing to say, but if the other party has no intention of ending the conversation, then you can only bite the bullet and continue the awkward chat.

7. In the eyes of others, you may think you are cold, but in fact only you know that you are nervous. They pretend to be calm on the outside, but panic on the inside.

8. In the virtual world, I am very good at chatting. In the real world, I don’t know how to continue the conversation after just a few words. I am very scared and nervous.

9. I stay at home and don’t want to go out. I will be very irritated when I see pedestrians on the road. This irritability comes from the inner fear.

10. I find it very tiring to keep in touch with friends.

11. I don’t like to introduce myself in various forms in public places, especially when there are many people.

12. Whether taking the subway or taking the bus, I always like to choose a time period to set off during off-peak periods.

13. When walking on the street, I take out my phone from time to time, unlock it, slide the interface, lock the screen, and after a while, repeat the same action.

The above are the most typical social obstacles faced by contemporary young people. Faced with social obstacles, we must actively work hard to overcome them and strive to be a sunny and lively young man.