What if you are too possessive of friendship? Friendship is very important to everyone. The friendship of contemporary youth proves that I never play cards by routine. Smile politely every day and say hi is often a general relationship. A honey is too close. What should I do if I am too possessive in friendship?

What if you are too possessive of friendship? 1 First of all, I am possessive because I care. If I don't consider the troubles caused to both sides, in fact, if a person is possessive and even has the desire to control you, it proves that he relies on you and trusts you very much. Of course, this does not include some overbearing people who want to control everything.

Secondly, a person's strong possessiveness of friendship is, to a great extent, a manifestation of inner insecurity, self-confidence and even great inferiority. In this case, he can't get enough sense of security from himself, but he can't trust others easily and can only entrust his feelings to another person. In this case, it is equivalent to putting all the eggs in one basket. If you lose them, you have nothing and naturally want to have them.

Finally, being possessive is also a manifestation of selfishness. It only cares about its own needs and ignores each other's feelings, which is a great trouble for both sides. One cares too much, the other is bound, and the collapse of friendship is imminent. In this case, possessiveness will lead to "overexertion" and the relationship between two people will break down, which will not pay off.

Possession is not the way to maintain friendship. After all, everyone is an independent individual. Before I became your friend, I was a person, a free and independent person. I have what I like and the right to make friends. Friendship is based on mutual respect and sufficient trust. Obviously, possessiveness is not enough trust.

I am who I am. Although I am a good friend, friendship can't turn me into what you think in order to satisfy your possessiveness. If you accept me as a friend, you should accept my personality and understand that it is wrong to try to control a person.

Many times, it's no one's fault to meet possessive friends. Opening the knot is the key. Everyone should live with confidence. Whether you want to possess or be possessed, you should be what live high wants. After all, you need friends, not "tool people". After all, treat friendship with more understanding and trust, and less compulsion and self-righteousness.

What if you are too possessive of friendship? What should I do if I am too possessive towards my friends?

Everyone will have many friends. It's good to have friends, but if there is a possessive person whose circle only allows you to enter but can't leave casually, it can only be said that you are a little unlucky. At this time, you can try to communicate with him. Even if you really hate sticking to you every day, don't obviously avoid him or simply ignore him.

I grew up because, after all, Pi can talk to anyone, so I have many friends. In high school, I went to the best middle school in our town and soon became one with the people in the dormitory. At that time, there was a quiet little girl in the dormitory. I don't think she talks to people very much, so I went to her and talked without saying a word.

Fortunately, I am familiar with myself. I don't think it's embarrassing for me if she doesn't return, so I'll keep talking. Later she asked me if we were friends, and I remember saying, of course. It was these two words that made me miserable later. That girl thinks I'm her only friend, so I have to hang around her.

Then every time other students in the class play with food, she holds my arm like a calf and won't let me go, which makes me really embarrassed. But I can't help but say that she is really good to me. She is always the first person to share anything delicious with me. If I don't finish my homework, she will teach me something.

Many people think Lily likes me, but only I know how much she cherishes my friends. Later, I talked to her seriously and said that we can't have only one friend for life.

I should open my heart to others. The two sisters had a heart-to-heart talk on the playground for two hours. Later, she slowly began to contact others and made other friends. Although she is not so attached to me, she is still very kind to me.

So what should I do with a possessive friend? Actually, it's really simple. Just communicate directly. Seriously tell him that you are not used to it. If you really want to be good friends with you, you won't ignore your feelings. He may not be used to this alienation at first, but you should give him enough time, even if he sometimes feels free, please don't say anything extreme to him. You know, if you are not a real friend, why do you care so much about you?

Friend, in fact, there is one more way to go when you gain a friendship. Maybe you won't feel anything yet, but when you go out to work, you will find that only your good friends can really help you, and those friends who have nodded before can actually help you more or less in society, so you must handle interpersonal relationships well.

What if you are too possessive of friendship? How to get along with possessive friends?

Don't show off your income.

With a friend who is too possessive, I personally think you should always pay attention. Although friends don't have to be on guard at all times, self-defense is right. In front of such friends, I dare not show you anything worth showing off, let alone tell ta, let alone deliberately show off. You show off,

After satisfying his vanity, do you know what ta will do behind his back? What would I think of you? Will you continue to be friends in the future? One more thing is better than one less thing. Besides, showing off with such a possessive friend,

What do you think you can show off? A possessive person, they can't hide what others don't have, even their own friends, I think it will be difficult to accept, so why show off in front of such people? Not awkward.

Don't compare friendship with her.

I remember when I was at school, I had three very good female classmates, and the relationship was like girlfriends. Skipped the art teacher's class together, and then sang a lesson in the Woods at the campus gate. Swear to study hard together, face the teacher's class together, and so on. They used to have a normal relationship. Because of me, they became good friends.

Every day at school, the four of us go anywhere together. Although they are good friends, they have different personalities. One of them has a strong possessiveness. If I and the other two are not with her, then she can pout and get angry for a long time. So I learned that I never mentioned the other two and me in front of her. Although she understands my friendship with the other two, she won't say much.

Pay attention to prevent the other party's "occupation"

I watched a film and television drama clip in which two best girlfriends worked in the same company. One is euphemistic and kind, and the other is strong. Later, the two of them worked on the same project together. As a result, the aggressive girlfriend directly stole the other party's project plan and abruptly took away the euphemistic girl's hard work.

This kind of thing not only appears in film and television dramas, but also is no longer unusual in reality. Some girlfriends have taken over boyfriends or husbands, and some have been robbed of their girlfriends by buddies. Is this kind of thing still rare? I'm angry and timid when I think about it,

So, why not take precautions earlier? A possessive person hopes that he can't give himself all the best things in the world, and then give others a little' pride' to satisfy his possessiveness.

Say what the other person thinks.

Personally, I get along with my friends in a straight way. If I can't walk straight, I'd rather have no friends. The most disgusting thing is that friends should be careful to protect each other. If my friends live better and mix better than me, then I will be very happy because I have a very good friend. For example, my friend is down and out,

Life is not as good as mine, so as long as I can, I will try my best to help. But if you are not as good as me, seriously jealous of my income and want to take everything I have for yourself, I will never forgive you. I'll point out what you think directly,

And tell you, before I tell you frankly, I really treat you as a friend. As for what you want to do, it depends on yourself, whether you are a friend or not, and how you are. Sometimes, possessive friends are not bad-hearted, but have a little more desire. If it is clearly pointed out, it may make ta wake up.

Don't take ta back to your home easily.

There lived a young couple in the same town. They opened a small restaurant and managed it well. That young man is very kind to that woman, and she is also very handsome. That woman has a good sister who can wear the same pair of trousers. She is divorced and her mental state is not very good. So the woman brought her stepsister home.

The result of the incident is dog blood, a cliche. The divorced godsister looked at her with good family conditions, excellent husband and strong possessiveness. So the story happened, the couple divorced, and the man and the divorced woman lived together.

It is not surprising that such things abound in our lives. So I advise you not to bring your possessive friends home as much as possible, no matter what your family conditions are.

Helping ta is just right.

In fact, you just mean well, and you think that if there is something missing between friends, or if you need any help, you would rather be wronged and give each other something, something and the like. But you know, in the eyes of a possessive person, what you give is charity and obvious disdain for ta.

This summary is actually quite complicated. Obviously, ta knows your good intentions, but ta just can't help but miss you. Then, didn't you catch something and complain? Enough is enough to help ta, or you will be wronged if you think about it, and your friendship can continue. So please remember, when you give something to each other in good faith, you must be careful.

Don't deliberately pursue each other.

It is said that many people's problems are caused by people around them, and I quite agree. Observe for yourself. If you always treat your friends well, your friends will appreciate you at first. After a long time, ta will get used to your kindness to ta. Over time, you will feel that you should treat ta like that.

You have to pay, ta has to enjoy. The same is true for possessive friends. If you always respect ta, pursue ta and treat ta carefully, then ta will definitely get used to your pursuit. Over time,

Ta will think that everything about you is not as good as ta. But who can explain things in this world? One day you may not be much better than ta. At that time, did you think ta could stand it? Then, if your friendship boat capsizes, it doesn't count. Do you know what will happen behind ta?

But never mind. Make yourself comfortable.

This is Dudu's favorite appearance of interpersonal communication. No matter how well we get along or how little we know each other, I hope we can live in peace far and near. You don't have to be friendly, and you don't have to snub anyone. If you feel right about your temper and can become close friends, then you don't have to guard against anything and do anything deliberately.

It's not your possessive personality or your euphemistic and easy-going personality. As long as we can treat each other sincerely, then everything is easy to say. Whether you are near or far away, if you can understand my approach and I can understand your situation, then everything will be fine. Between friends,

What is needed is a kind of mutual trust and perseverance at any time and anywhere. The so-called friends can understand and tolerate each other, not use each other. Therefore, for those friends who are too possessive and can't get along well, let ta go to her favorite place, get along well and be generous to each other.