You must know how to deal with a lying man

You must know how to deal with a lying man. The foundation of a relationship between two people is based on trust, but in reality There are always some men in life who like to lie to women. As time goes by, they will tell more and more lies, so you must know how to deal with men who lie. You must know how to deal with men who lie 1

1. The psychological state of men who lie to women

We have all heard women say this: I would rather believe that there are ghosts in the world , and don’t believe a man’s mouth. This is indeed the case. Some men especially like to lie. So the following are the mental states that men will have when they lie to women.

1. Diversion of attention

When men are still thinking about the pot while eating from the bowl, "making noises in the east and attacking in the west" has become their usual tactic. In order to cover up their mistakes, they often deliberately do some bluffing actions to divert women's attention. For example, if a man wants to cheat, working overtime, attending meetings, going on business trips, etc. have become their common excuses.

In addition to lying about cheating, they will also lie about some small things and small faults, just to avoid accusations and punishments, to hide private money, to accidentally get into trouble with friends, to have work problems, etc. In order to cover up their faults, men If they are not capable enough, they will deliberately tell some "white lies" to women to seek their forgiveness, and women are also easily moved by men's "good intentions." In fact, behind these little lies, there may be something more hidden that women cannot see. Big question.

2. Being clever

Men always like to play tricks on women, thinking that they can hide their tricks and little tricks with women by telling a few lies. It must be extremely concealed and will not be easily discovered by women. They do things that betray women under the eyes of women, in order to find excitement and at the same time prove that they are capable. On one side, he hugs a woman as if nothing has happened, while on the other side he talks sweet words to coax his lover. Even if the lie is exposed by a woman, they can still say to the woman with a playful smile and shamelessness: "Actually, you are the only one in my heart."

　3. Seeking attention

Some men like to tell lies. This kind of lie is what face-conscious men like to tell most. Of course, this kind of lie is also the lowest level. Bragging is just to get women’s attention. They think the cost is low and the harm is small. Therefore, for men, bragging should be something every man should do. I have done it before. Many men like to pretend to be fat in front of women in order to establish a tall image of themselves in women's minds. However, this kind of lie is the easiest to expose. When the time comes, it will be a trivial matter for a man's image to collapse. In your eyes, your character also deteriorates.

2. Abnormal behavior if a man lies to you

If a man lies to you, then he will. It will definitely be different from usual, and there will definitely be some abnormal behaviors. If women observe the following behaviors in a man, it means that he is lying to you

1. Choose to alienate women

If a person really lies, he will definitely choose to stay away from the other person because he is afraid that if he stays with the other person for a long time, the truth about his lying will be exposed. Therefore, he will not choose a woman to be with. If a woman finds out that a man is in love and chooses to alienate you, then this man is lying to you. Therefore, such a man is not worthy of a woman giving her sincerity to him, and a woman should leave this man.

2. Hesitating when speaking

If a person really lies, then he will definitely show it. For example, he is prone to hesitating when talking to the other party. Me. Because when a person tells a lie, he will feel panic and his speech will naturally not be so clear and crisp.

Therefore, if a woman hesitates when she encounters a man talking to you in a relationship, then this man is lying to you. If a man just feels shy, his speech will not be hesitant, but just incoherent.

3. Keep silent

After many men lie in a relationship, their reaction is to keep silent. Because sometimes if he doesn't speak, he will think that the other person has no way of knowing the truth. Therefore, sometimes silence also represents an attitude. In the process of getting along with a man, if a woman finds that the man will choose to remain silent when talking about some topics with the man, then the man has lied to you. There is no need for a woman to continue with this man.

4. Your eyes don’t look good

It is said that a person’s eyes can express a lot of things. A person may lie, but as long as you see his eyes, you can know the truth. Therefore, if a woman finds out that a man is with you and he dares not look into your eyes, then the man is most likely lying to you. Because he lied to you, he feels guilty inside. They say you behave like this only after you have done something wrong. Therefore, a woman should leave him as soon as possible.

5. Not willing to talk about lying

If a person does something wrong in one thing, then he will be less afraid to say such a thing because he is afraid What you do is known to others. If a man lies in a relationship, he will never talk about the lie to a woman. Because he knew that if this topic was brought up, it would mean that his lies would be known to others. Therefore, if a woman finds that a man always avoids a topic in a relationship, then this man is definitely not honest with you.

6. Stay alone

If a man really likes a woman in a relationship, how could he choose to be alone. Only when he has done something bad and feels that he has no face to face this woman, will he choose to run away from her. Therefore, if a woman finds that a man will choose to stay alone when he is with you, then this man has lied to you to a large extent. Women should see when this man will tell you the truth.

3. Must-know methods to deal with men who lie

What should women do when faced with a man who lies habitually? Men may lie in good faith or on purpose. You must know the following methods to deal with men who lie.

1. Distinguish whether a man’s lying is malicious deception

If lying comes from an instinct, it means that this man has become a bad habit and there is no need to continue to have a close relationship with him. If this man lies, it is a kind of malicious deception. If he hides his marriage history, he is hiding his marriage history so that he can develop further with you; or he is hiding his lack of job just to gain self-esteem and face in front of you. This kind of lying behavior is really intolerable, and there is no need to continue to have further entanglements with such a man.

2. Distinguish who is the ultimate beneficiary of a man’s lies

If a man lies and the ultimate beneficiary is you, then you can consider whether to continue to have further relations with him. comminicate. You know, a man always wants to be good for you no matter what time he is. Even if he encounters something bad, he still lies to you to make you happy. This is also showing his heart to you. At this time, if you are sure that you are the ultimate beneficiary of lying, then there is no need to care too much about the man's lying behavior.

3. Don’t rush to expose a man’s lying behavior to your face

Men are all good at saving face. If a man’s lying does not violate your bottom line, nor does he become confused in the face of right and wrong. If so, you don’t need to expose the other person’s lying behavior in person at this time, but you should express your views on the other person’s behavior in private, hoping that the other person will consciously reduce this kind of lying behavior in the future.

4. Don’t believe men’s lies.

When dealing with men who are accustomed to lying, we must stay awake and not be brainwashed by them. If you are deceived by the other party's too many sweet words and cannot find the north and south, thinking that they will really give us everything and be 100% sincere to us, then if you are so serious, you may lose.

5. Occasionally, you can pretend to be stupid.

When it comes to men’s lies, sometimes we look back and find that we have also lied at certain moments, so we can put ourselves in someone else’s shoes Later, we discovered that the other person’s lies didn’t seem so heinous. At this time, if it is not a very serious problem and is just lying about some trivial matters, we can also pretend to be confused and pretend that we do not know.

6. Use sharp eyes to make the other person behave automatically

A smart woman will not only not expose a man’s lying behavior in public, but will use a look that understands the other person. Look at him, then laugh it off, and don't pay too much attention to his lying movements and behaviors. After making the other person aware of himself, he will take the initiative to find a way out by himself. Moments like this are the key moments for women to radiate their charm.

In fact, lying is a form of language expression. Everyone in this world will lie. Lying can also be considered a weapon for people to defend themselves. Compared with women, men are definitely the ones who lie more, even if Some men still lie to women they like, and they still like to lie to women. This may be a habit, or it may be a white lie. But no matter what, lying is not tolerated in the emotional world. Even if there is something unspeakable, lying can only show that you are dishonest. I believe no one would want a dishonest relationship! You must know 2 ways to deal with men who tell lies

Men sometimes lie to avoid "trouble"

Men use lies to deal with women. Sometimes it is because they are afraid of provoking "trouble" with women. They are tired of or find it difficult to accept that women restrict men's autonomy and freedom because of trivial matters. Most of them have no patience, and they are not good at dealing with women in complicated ways because of unnecessary things. Lying appropriately is the most direct or simple way they think. Men do not think about lying as complicated as women do. Women have added a lot of troubles to themselves just because men don't see lies as complicated, and they are trapped in the complexity, and even cannot extricate themselves, and are miserable.

What should you do if you meet a man who "lies" again?

You have to observe whether they lie consistently or occasionally. Of course, although a man who always lies is still a little far away from being a deceiver, it is still difficult to change his nature by not having any contact with such a man. If it is a man who lies occasionally, you need to consider his original intention and purpose of lying. There is a kind of man who lies carefully. He would consider each other's interests before lying, and they lied. Sometimes the method is to deal with certain things rationally, and maybe the method is not very appropriate. They will not affect the interests of himself and the people he cares about because of some insignificant things.

Communicate effectively with a man

Men lie sometimes to protect themselves. It is better to communicate more when encountering problems. Don’t make any suspicions yourself. If you don’t believe your boyfriend, you can ask him Let’s give it a chance and talk about it after the matter has passed. Don’t communicate when you are in a bad mood, otherwise the man will not admit it for the sake of his own face, let alone listen to your own suggestions.