But because it's really easy to talk about, it becomes a so-called confidante or confidante, which is a boyfriend or girlfriend in modern comparison.
Some people will become confidantes or confidantes because, although they like her (him) very much, they know rationally that this relationship will not have any results. There are too many things that can ruin a relationship, such as distance, time, money or just a small thing.
For feelings destined to have no results, some people can't get over it and become unrequited love, which is very painful and depressing. Some people survived, but it was easier to get along with each other, not happy, but at least it was easy. And after a long time, you will find that you are more introverted and more introverted than before. Isn't this the ultimate goal of two people getting along?
"If it weren't for you, I wouldn't believe that friends are more dead-set than lovers ..." Many times, the gap between close friends and male and female friends is only physically different from your intimate relationship. In addition to the degree of physical relationship, emotionally speaking, male girlfriends or female girlfriends know you better than your boyfriend or girlfriend, and they will care more about you, love you dearly and understand you better.
Because many times, they are outsiders, and because they are outsiders, they don't need to know much, and they don't need to know much. Whether things are right or wrong, they will always be on your side, others are wrong, and our baby will always be right. She or he is really a villain, shameless, and willing to do this to such a lovely baby in our family, huh?
Who doesn't like a person who always thinks you are right? The confidante and confidante can't be said to be morbid, but can only be said to be a desire for spiritual comfort. Who doesn't need such a person who can tell him everything and share all secrets, happiness or happiness?
There are no two identical leaves in the world. It's really hard to find someone who has always been with you. Therefore, it is a very happy thing to have a confidante or confidant. Is normal, healthy and happy. This is not morbid, but a normal and reasonable product of the development of the times.