We have walked out of society, and it is almost impossible for us to get in touch with the opposite sex without creating opportunities to understand it deliberately.
However, the key factor is not the channel, but the concept and cognition, so first of all, first, find a correct position and have a clear understanding of your own situation. I am an economical woman in a third-tier city, with five points after makeup, and I don't want to be promoted through marriage.
In the case of similar conditions on both sides, the character and education of boys are more important to me, not control, and the height and face value of the other side can be relaxed a little.
Therefore, my position is the male version, or a slightly higher version, and I am more inclined to find my peers. Don't want to accept each other's major shortcomings and age differences for promotion.