People who don't have any friends in their lives must have weaknesses in their personality characteristics, but it can't be said that this is a symptom of depression, but this personality is indeed more likely to develop into a state of depression and anxiety than ordinary people.
Suffering from having no friends, they must have more inner self-dialogue. Such people are often strong and shy, so it is particularly important for them to avoid depression. Such people should firmly master a skill, that is, the ability of self-balance, self-harmony and self-supervision. With this ability, they can live an easy life even without friends.
There are no two identical leaves in the world, and so are people's psychological characteristics, which must be related to the growing environment. Since the weak character has been formed, we must learn to remedy it.
Some people are really cold and introverted. Some people have suffered psychological trauma or inferiority complex, which leads to poor communication skills. People who don't like to make friends have their own system, enjoy themselves, enjoy themselves, enjoy independence in their own world, enjoy a person's silence, and don't like others rushing into his world. Such people are more concerned about their inner feelings, less keen on social activities and less willing to let others know their true state.
This is a common anti-dependence, that is, getting used to a person and doing everything by yourself. I could have asked my friend to solve it, but I didn't!
People around you think you are indifferent, and relatives think you are emotionally alienated, but in the long run, you will feel inexplicably empty and unhappy, because everyone needs to be connected.
This mentality has something to do with family. It may be that I didn't have much emotional interaction with my family since I was a child, my emotions were not understood, and then I was indifferent to others.
Just try not to let this emotion affect your normal life, because some people just have a peaceful mind. However, if we ignore the feelings of others for a long time, it will affect the relationship between men and women and parent-child relationship, and children will grow into a similar mentality, leading to low emotional intelligence and easy to hit a wall.
First, find out why this happened. This is basically inseparable from family of origin since childhood. Is your family happiness index low? Don't you have that kind of love atmosphere in your family? Some children often quarrel because of their parents. When you were a child, you were scared and helpless. Gradually, you will become rebellious or silent. Now you should realize that you have grown up, you have the ability to do what you like, and you are no longer helpless. Talk to your colleagues more, make more friends, give yourself more confidence and be a sunny and loving person.
They are usually dominators, usually leaders or extremely isolated people. They can perceive the power and let themselves be out of the control of others and have the initiative. They know what they are thinking, care about fairness and justice, and are willing to fight for it.
Socialization is inherently troublesome. Man is a complex moving animal. The intersection of these objects is increasing trouble, but it doesn't matter if you know it. This is the key to solving every trouble. Actually, I'm too lazy to answer your question. I just feel bored and want to be interesting, but I have to rely on my own intelligence to help you figure it out.
But your heart is still open, and you don't know the characteristics of the friends you need. Depression is a misjudgment.
Not liking making friends is not depression. Depression patients are characterized by loss of interest, low self-evaluation, mental retardation or agitation, and repeated thoughts of death. Bad friends are caused by many reasons: injuries, difficulties in language communication, maladjustment to the environment, autistic people and so on. These may affect social difficulties.
It is too hasty to judge whether there is depression simply by never making friends. Is a 40-year-old man like me who hasn't found a girlfriend seriously world-weary? Actually, I'm really not world-weary. The reason why I don't find a girlfriend is because my wife won't let me cover my face. So we should treat it differently according to the actual situation!
Depression is a psychological disease. Although there is no organic disease, it will lead to physical discomfort. Mild people can adjust themselves, and severe people need to take medicine according to symptoms.
Do you dislike social activities because of your personality or social phobia?
Loneliness is a good way of life, but you can enjoy yourself.
If social fear can also lead to depression, psychological counseling is still needed.
Look at your happiness. If you are unhappy, you need to seek medical help.
Just be happy, don't think too much.