A person's life is inseparable from three emotions, family, love and friendship. Everyone has three emotions. Family ties are natural and eternal, and you can't give up. Love, if long, will have its own perfect day. What about friendship?
Everyone makes friends in different ways, and everyone has their own hardcore friends. Nothing more than a drink and a cigarette. Leave phone calls or wechat with each other. This is a friend or a buddy, right? But is this friendship? Of course not! This kind of person is a friend, but he does not meet the standard of "friendship" in three relationships. Affection and love express the friendship between two people that can't be abandoned or even affect their lives, and friendship must be the same. Then what is friendship? When you need to make a life choice, he gives you advice, when your safety is threatened, he takes the lead, when you are down and out, he gives generously, and when you are in trouble, he says nothing. This is friendship, I call him a brother!
Some people may say that I have such "friendship", so do you really have it? Of course, I believe there are such people in everyone's life, but there is a problem that needs meditation, introspection and introspection. What did you give each other back? Do you have the courage to promise? What is it, friendship? What is a brother? When the other party helps you without hesitation, measures right and wrong for you and paves the way for you, what do you return? Friendship is not one-sided. No matter how hard a person tries, he can't get feedback from the other side. This is a friendship that will dissipate sooner or later. Remember, when you see through what your brother has done for you and can't repay you, the word "gratitude" is the best reward. How can we be grateful? When you leave your family and love, the most contact is naturally friendship. What kind of brothers should be grateful? There was an emergency at home in the middle of the night, so I took the initiative to take out my car keys. I don't trust you to drive a vintage car of a certain year alone. Thank you! Be grateful when your career bottleneck is blocked and he paves the way for you wholeheartedly! When he tells you all the bank card passwords, be grateful and don't worry about giving you the wallet! I am eager to spend money around you, and you should be grateful when he takes the initiative to donate money!
"Brother" is not a glass of wine or a cigarette. This is eternal destiny. Everyone has his own close friends. They used to drink and guess boxing together. Don't let them become the past tense in our lives. Remember every fragment between brothers. Brother Wen, how much time do we have to drink and talk nonsense? Three years? Five years? No! It is forever.
Friendship is different from family ties. It is a non-love relationship between two strangers. In some people's world, it may have already surpassed family and love. Know how to be grateful, and you will really come into contact with the word friendship. Don't let your ignorance hurt our brother! I hope this article can help us really understand friends and brothers, some friends and some brothers, and grasp the present and the present. This is the "white" in my heart.