Everyone knows the truth that "one chopstick is gently broken and ten chopsticks are firmly held together". It's hard to make it by your own efforts, but if a few like-minded friends work together, success is not out of reach. As sadie said, "when mosquitoes charge together, elephants will be conquered."
2 1 century is an era of fierce competition for talents, just like the principle of "survival of the fittest, elimination of the unsuitable" in evolution. Therefore, if you want to have your own foothold, you should not only have solid basic knowledge, in-place extracurricular extension, as well as the ability to seize opportunities and keen observation, but also have a group of friends. Because you have friends, you can learn from them, make progress with them, and constantly improve your level. Friends can not only help each other, but also find each other's shortcomings and correct them in time, which is an indispensable good condition for people who want to improve themselves as much as possible in the 2 1 century.
As long as friends make the right friends, there is no harm. As the saying goes: "Those who are near the ink are black, and those who are near the ink are black." How to measure the "quality" of friends? Confucius once said, "There are three good friends and three bad friends. Friends are straightforward, friends are tolerant, and friends learn more and benefit more. Friends will be open, friendly, soft, will appoint friends, and will hurt. " It can be seen that the ancients thought that true friends should be true, honest or knowledgeable people, and it is harmful to make friends with hypocrites, flatterers or glib people. Therefore, in daily life, you can observe that those who see your mistakes and sincerely hope you to correct them, those who dare to admit their mistakes, and those who are progressive and knowledgeable are your friends. In the constant communication between friends, you will receive subtle effects, become honest and upright, gain more and more knowledge, or get the opinions or suggestions from the other side in your study and life, and constantly improve yourself. At the same time, when you are in trouble, you will also have friends to help you bear it. Don't always think that the person who greets is your friend. Although friends really need praise and encouragement, if such people just flatter you and turn a blind eye to your shortcomings, I don't think it is necessary to make friends with them. Making friends with such people will only fuel your vanity, and you may be proud. You will go backwards, not forward. ...
Imagine if you not only have extraordinary talents, but also have many friends around you to share with you when you are happy; When you are sad, they accompany you to bear it; They congratulate you when you make progress; When you do something wrong, they give you advice and suggestions. In such an environment, everyone makes progress together and grows together. Two heads are better than one, and you may have more than three friends, maybe 30 or 300. ...
There are so many benefits to making friends, so what are you waiting for? Pay attention to the people around you and see if you can make friends.
"It's hard to find a friend a thousand miles away, friend Louis ..."
It took me a long time to find it. I wonder if there is still time?