In fact, it has its own reasons. Wherever we go, whether we are moving from an old circle to a new one, whether we are accepted or rejected, the probability of meeting people we don't like is the same. Why is this happening? Because the people we don't like are often the same type, the same type, the same characteristics and the same quality. So in every circle, there are more or less people with qualities that we don't like.
We may escape once or twice, but we can't escape forever, because wherever we go, the problems we want to solve will appear again and again until we take them seriously and solve them. So, if someone speaks ill of you behind your back, there are several ways to make you breathless and look like a person.
No one wants to make enemies and opponents for himself unless he has to. However, the man who attacked him behind his back was not a gentleman, and neither was what he did. As the old saying goes, don't repay kindness with evil. Then, there is no need to fight poison with poison. What we can do is to be more aboveboard. In other words, open it and bring it to the sun instead of letting it ferment in the dark.
It's a good idea to catch each other's weaknesses. However, this weakness is not for you to attack each other, nor for you to carry each other, but for you to protect yourself and be your shield. When the opponent's spearhead strikes again, you should fight back. Pick up the shield, think about her weakness, and then don't back down, don't back down. Then, take a step forward, pick up the spear in your hand, dare to say such backstab words and tell the story. In fact, the most taboo between people is hypocrisy. Make friends and enemies sincerely.
There are no enemies and no friends in this world. In other words, in the ancient tribal times, everyone was good friends who helped each other. People are connected and need to support each other. If you can't be a good friend, be an open, sincere and frank opponent. We have done what we have to do. Let's be honest, answer blows with blows, and call a truce. Perhaps in this way, truly equal opponents can develop true friendship.