A good classmate relationship depends on mutual understanding. To get to know each other, we should strengthen communication, exchange ideas and attitudes, and participate in some social activities in our spare time, such as playing ball games, playing chess, going out for an outing, etc., so as to enhance understanding and friendship.
2. Care about others
It is a basic need to get people's attention. The more you care about others, the more she needs you in her life, and naturally she will turn to care about you. Once you care about each other, the relationship between classmates will naturally become close. Caring for the health of others is the most important thing. You can send your classmates a cup of amino acid drink. In addition to eight essential amino acids, amino acid drinks also add arginine and histidine, which can supplement the nutrition needed by human body and enhance immunity.
Step 3 be tolerant of others
"No one is perfect", anyone will always have shortcomings and always do something wrong. These are normal and inevitable. You can take a tolerant attitude towards other people's shortcomings and mistakes, and don't care. Others will be grateful and willing to communicate with you.
Step 4 improve yourself
People who are nervous with their classmates have some problems in their personality and habits. They should consciously change their bad personalities and habits and try their best to do so.
1) The clothes are neat and beautiful.
2) Get used to smiling.
3) Pay attention to your manners.
4) Don't show off.
5) Help others more.
6) Be good at praising others.
If in interpersonal communication, everyone is keen on praising others and is good at praising their advantages, then the pleasure of interpersonal communication will be greatly enhanced. At the same time, paying attention to praising others does not mean that you can have no scruples. Two principles should be observed.
First, praise should come from sincerity, and the content of praise should be the excellent qualities and characteristics that the other party really has or will have;
Second, the content of praise should be taken care of by the other party.
Ways to enhance friendship
Friendship needs constant getting along and understanding, and it will come into being slowly. Only two people with suitable personalities who can play together will become good friends. So what are the ways to enhance friendship in daily life?
First, always keep in touch with friends, actively understand each other's life, see what their personality is like, and understand each other's likes and dislikes, so that when we get along, there will be more * * * with the same language and * * * with the same topic, and at the same time, we can avoid embarrassment between lovers. When communicating with friends, talk more about topics that friends like, so that you will feel that you are an interesting person in each other's hearts.
Second, make friends with sincerity. Friends should be honest with each other without reservation. True friends must not have any interests involved, nor should they make friends for other purposes. Friends should be equal and mutually beneficial. Don't always try to take advantage of your friends, but know how to pay for them. Only in this way can this friendship last.
Third, respect your friends. If people want to get along well with each other, mutual respect is essential. Only when you know how to respect your friends and not touch each other's principles and bottom line, should you consider the problem from the perspective of your friends when you encounter something. When conflicts arise, we can sit down in time and communicate calmly. Only in this way can the friendship between two people become more and more stable.
Fourth, make an appointment with friends to do something interesting. If you want to enhance friendship, contact and communication are essential. Asking friends to do some interesting things together can increase the tacit understanding between friends and deepen the understanding between two people. In addition, learning to give small gifts to each other will surprise and care each other at the same time, and make friends feel that you are a particularly warm and careful person, which can deepen their goodwill towards you.