What to do if your child says he has no friends at school

Method 1: Guide your child to find friends

If your child wants to make friends, then you can Provide some specific guidance on making friends. For example: you can start making friends with the students near your seat, and look for those students who are more cheerful and easy-going and take the initiative to talk to them. The topic can start from the class the teacher just took, asking about something you didn't understand or confirming the homework left by the teacher. Tell your child to prepare a sentence or two if they feel nervous about speaking for the first time. If your classmate is not very enthusiastic, don't worry. It may mean that the other person is thinking about something else. You should also teach your children some communication skills, such as being enthusiastic and generous when getting along with classmates, and try to talk about topics that everyone is interested in. Do not gossip or disparage any classmates. Participate more actively in group activities, help your classmates more, gradually deepen your understanding, and let more classmates understand yourself. The most important thing is to tell children that even if their academic performance is not very good, as long as they are kind and enthusiastic, they can make friends.

Method 2: Teach children to face loneliness

Some people have few friends, some have different friends at different stages, some are lonely at one stage and have many friends at another stage, that is to say , many people have times of loneliness. We face a child who has no friends temporarily due to various reasons. On the one hand, we must try to help him find friends, and on the other hand, we must help him learn to cope with the loneliness in front of him.

Method 3. Find friends while reading

Nowadays, there are many channels for reading. In addition to original books, you can read online, read other people’s blogs, browse books on mobile phones, etc. way to read. While reading, children can make friends with the protagonists in the book and the author. They can also leave messages to their favorite authors through the Internet and become pen pals. Older children can chat with some fixed friends in online chat rooms. The school has its own online post bar, where there is a lot of school news. Many students go to the post bar of their own school or class to post and initiate topics. They also get close to classmates online and find friends in the school. But what parents must pay attention to is ultimately helping their children find friends in real life.