4. A friend is someone who serves you anytime and anywhere and listens to your command.
5. Be tolerant between friends. Tolerance means tolerance and accommodation.
After entering adolescence, we gradually began to get rid of our dependence on adults psychologically, and our relationship with our parents and teachers became less intimate than before. We don't want to open our hearts to our parents and teachers, but rather to our peers, especially our close friends. Therefore, we are particularly eager for friendship.
How to get friendship:
Friendship cannot be born between people, and sincere friendship is the result of careful cultivation.
As long as we communicate with classmates and teachers in a sincere manner, we will certainly gain friendship.
Open your heart, communicate frankly with others, help others sincerely, and friends will definitely come to us.
Education edition:
① Be positive, enthusiastic and honest.
② Understanding, tolerance and consideration for others.
③ Take an active part in group activities.
(4) Broad-minded, understanding, strict self-discipline, and tolerant of others.
⑤ Don't be jealous. When a friend succeeds, be grateful and sincerely praise him.
Beijing Normal University Edition:
(1) Select a friend.
We should have all kinds of friends.
Making friends requires sincerity.
Making friends requires the principle of right and wrong.
Making friends requires tolerance.
The principle of making friends:
Making friends is an equal and reciprocal process, and giving and sharing must be two-way, so as to achieve win-win or even win-win.
No one is perfect, everyone is different. Appreciate others, praise others, tolerate others, respect differences and strengthen communication. You will make more interesting friends and win more lasting friendship.
True friendship should be frank and firm in the face of principles, and the so-called friendship cannot be maintained at the expense of principles.
We should be careful to make friends. Make friends with people in society, and be willing to make friends, not make bad friends.
A good friend refers to a friend who is virtuous, like-minded and beneficial to his progress.
A friend is a friend who can point out our mistakes, shortcomings or deficiencies bluntly, criticize and help us.
Bad friends are friends who will have a bad influence on themselves.
How to stay away from bad friends;
(1) Distinguish right from wrong
② Enhance self-control and consciously resist bad temptations.
Stick to principles and make more friends.
How to make the tree of friendship evergreen: (the principle of making friends)
1, equality, respect and sincerity.
Everyone is equal in personality and legal status. Treating people equally is an important principle of interpersonal communication and a prerequisite for establishing and developing friendship.
Friends need mutual respect. Respecting friends means respecting their self-esteem.
When friends meet, sincerity is the most important thing. Friends should communicate sincerely, keep their word and keep their promises.
2. Understanding and tolerance. Understand and tolerate some mistakes made by friends. Understanding between friends. Tolerance is not without principles. To establish true friendship, we must distinguish right from wrong, justice and evil. The so-called friendship that does not distinguish between right and wrong, good and evil, but only talks about "brotherhood" is by no means a true friendship.
3. Care and help. When friends and classmates encounter difficulties and misfortunes, we should not hesitate to lend a helping hand. Never take the initiative to help, care for and support others, which makes it difficult to find intimate friends and develop sincere friendship.
Ten suggestions for dealing with people:
1, put a lock on your mouth and don't try to say all your thoughts. Cultivate low-key and infectious remarks. The way you speak is more important than the content.
2. Make less promises and ensure your credibility. Once a promise is made, it must be fulfilled at any cost.
Never miss the opportunity to praise and encourage others. Praise those who have done well. If you need to comment, please help, not despise.
4. Care about other people's needs, work, family and affection. Be happy with happy people; Sad with sad people. Everyone you associate with, no matter how humble, can feel your attention to him.
5. Be a happy person. Don't spread your insignificant pain and disappointment to the people around you. Remember, everyone has some pressure.
6. Keep an open mind. Discuss but don't argue, and you won't get angry even if you disagree. This is a sign of inner maturity.
7. Let your virtue speak for itself. Refuse to talk about other people's shortcomings, and don't spread rumors. These will waste your precious time and greatly destroy your interpersonal relationship.
8. Be careful of other people's feelings. Teasing and humor should not be at the expense of hurting others, especially when you think it is impossible.
9. Don't worry about rumors about you. Remember, people who spread rumors are not the most accurate reporters in the world. Constantly changing. Nervousness and bad intentions are generally the reasons behind people's right and wrong.
10, don't care too much about your reputation, do your best and wait patiently. Forget yourself and let others "remember" you. Such a success is even more pleasant.