Part of children's introversion is genetic, and the other part is related to family education and children's surrounding environment. Nowadays, this society requires people to have strong social skills. Talking to people and making friends are the first step in social interaction. What should we do when introverted children don't like making friends? As parents, children should be encouraged to communicate boldly with others. Many parents ask their children to reduce their communication with friends in order not to delay their study. It is necessary for parents to remind and control moderately. However, we must see that friends are indispensable for children's development, and too many restrictions will not pay off. Children should be encouraged to communicate boldly, especially to make up for their personal defects, which is a challenge for children and will bring them breakthrough and balanced development. It is inevitable that some difficulties and setbacks will occur if children are to learn to believe that their parents want them to know that interacting with others and doing things are the same. When faced with difficulties and setbacks, tell children to be more confident and believe that they can overcome difficulties and setbacks through their own efforts, so as to achieve the final victory. When children have friends of the opposite sex, don't scold them. Many families have a very interesting phenomenon. As soon as parents see their children answering the phone and reading text messages, they will ask, "A man or a woman?" This reflects a misunderstanding of parents, that is, adolescent boys and girls will have problems if they have too many contacts. The communication between adolescent boys and girls really needs attention and guidance. However, children need to have experience in getting along with the opposite sex, because society itself is made up of men and women, and they have to face it sooner or later. Besides, when children grow up, which one doesn't face many problems such as love and marriage, so it is better to face it than to force and avoid it. Encourage children to take part in outdoor activities and ask their parents and friends to recall their childhood. You will certainly realize a life experience, that is, most people met in outdoor activities, and many unforgettable friendships were also produced in outdoor activities. Welcome children to bring their friends home. If your home is richly decorated and spotless, and some naughty boys run into your house, will you welcome them in? If you do this, although the home is messed up, it has become a paradise for children; If you refuse the children, even if you are slightly unhappy, sensitive elves may stay away from them. You must understand that the two attitudes will inevitably have different results. Undoubtedly, it is 1, times more important for children to have a partner and live happily than a clean and beautiful room! Philippine psychologist Kalandan said: A child with low social skills has greater defects than a child who has never been to college. From the perspective of psychological development, making friends is an essential part of children's mental health development. Friends are the most important wealth in a person's life. The more friends a person has, the more wealth he has.