The chaos of private life is first manifested on the surface, that is, some people who don't like cleanliness and live in a dirty environment. Such people can make friends as long as their hearts are not bad. Living with a man, his room is always mixed with the smell of instant noodles and smelly socks. The air doesn't circulate, so does the smell of the toilet. In such a small room, there is only a bed and a table. He eats barbecue, taps the keyboard of the game, wears earplugs, and sometimes swears at "junk games". It seems that nothing has changed since you joined his life. The biggest advantage is that you don't have to pay.

The chaos of private life is also reflected in the dirty heart. There is a kind of person whose private life is chaotic, who will not give his true feelings, but has a chaotic relationship with many people. This kind of person had better stay at a respectful distance from others. For the average woman, she really likes someone and just wants to have everything with the man she likes. Love is selfish and needs the uniqueness and persistence of oneself and the other party. People with chaotic private lives are very casual about feelings and don't want to love each other for life at all. When they are tired of looking at each other, they will let go, will not be heartbroken for love, and will not be distressed for love. Where can there be pain without love?

People who often like to go in and out of bars are mixed, and there are everyone in them. Don't touch them. It's not that I'm biased against night market bars, but that I'm a person who frequents these occasions, and my outlook on life and feelings will definitely be biased, because the people gathered in these occasions are uneven, the people are mixed, and it's easy to go astray and can't stand the temptation if I don't concentrate. In my opinion, it is normal for people to lose their guard and even find a strange opposite sex to talk about their feelings and life.

People with chaotic private lives are men and women, but it is better to stay away from them, which is inconsistent with your three views and naturally has no reason to get along. But they can't try to change others according to their own preferences.