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What do you think of the 16-year-old junior high school girl who gave birth out of wedlock and was abandoned by her boyfriend at the age of 4?

Liu Jingyi, the granddaughter of the Liu family, suddenly brought back a lively and lovely four-year-old child, saying that she is her own flesh and blood. But Liu Jingyi is only 21 years old this year, and she is not married. At present, the father of this child has disappeared. The four-year-old child was worried about two old people, and when asked about her granddaughter, she kept silent. So, what happened to Liu Jingyi?

Liu Jingyi's grandfather Liu Huaqiang said that his granddaughter gave birth to this child in 215. At that time, her granddaughter was only 16 years old, and she was only studying in Grade Two. At that time, she was lured out by Ming Jiang, a 3-year-old social youth, and gave birth to the child. This year, the child is already four years old, but he was abandoned by his father.

It turns out that the child was sent to her boyfriend Ming Jiang's home by Liu Jingyi last month, but it was unexpectedly sent back to the Liu family by the Jiang family without bringing her relatives. Since then, she has been adamant not to have this child. Liu Jingyi said that the children's grandparents don't care about the children at all, and now she has quit her job and can only stay at her grandfather's house.

Liu Jingyi, who has no job and no income, can only turn to two old people, despite her boyfriend's avoidance and Jiang family's disregard. In this remote mountain village, the small and humble room has become the only residence for four generations. What makes Liu Jingyi even more angry is that every sentence comes from the incomprehensible scolding of Jiang's family.

Liu Jingyi said that Ming Jiang's mother not only ignored the child, but also publicly scolded her in her own family, saying that she was useless and cheated Ming Jiang, and bluntly said that the child was born by herself, and she would not bring it to her, let alone have it.

Liu Jingyi used to be a kindergarten teacher. Because she couldn't take care of her children at work, Liu Jingyi sent her children back to Jiang's home. But in the voice of the group, the Jiang family categorically accused Liu Jingyi of "abandoning her husband and children" and then left. Is this the fundamental reason why the Jiang family evaded the responsibility of children? Liu Jingyi decided to ask Jiang Gu for an explanation.

Ming Jiang's father said that now Liu Jingyi is anxious to get rid of Ming Jiang and send the children away, which has ulterior motives. Previously, Liu Jingyi put her children at Jiang's house on the grounds of looking for a job, but Jiang's family accidentally discovered that Liu Jingyi kept in touch with two friends of the opposite sex instead of looking for a job. They were afraid that Liu Jingyi would leave Ming Jiang, so it was a "trick" taken by the Jiang family to send the children away.

At that time, faced with the suspicion of the Jiang family, Liu Jingyi and Ming Jiang directly clashed and smashed the Jiang family, and even proposed to break up. In Jiang's family's mind, Ming Jiang is obedient to Liu Jingyi, but now it is Liu Jingyi's ignorance.

Liu Jingyi said frankly that suspicion is an excuse for the Jiang family to evade responsibility and take responsibility. Liu Jingyi, who is ignorant, is not ready to be a qualified mother. At the beginning, it was Jiang's family who insisted that she give birth to a child, but now why she abandoned the child regardless. Then why did this 12-year-old love come to the point of abandoning children?

Liu Jingyi recalled that her love with Ming Jiang was established with online dating, and the little girl who was still on campus quickly fell in love. When it comes to this first love, Liu Jingyi's tender face is always hard to hide happiness, but at that time, her boyfriend's obedience changed quietly at the moment the child arrived.

Friends around me are still on campus. Because of the cherish of this love and the determination to live a happy life with Ming Jiang, simple Liu Jingyi has become a mother. But now the change of Ming Jiang and Jiang family makes her feel chilling. Liu Jingyi said that at first, I felt that a boy older than her could tolerate himself like a father, but her boyfriend was not self-motivated, so he stopped working for a long time and couldn't bear the responsibility of the family. Children are also brought up by their own families, and the Jiang family has no one to help themselves.

Ming Jiang said that Liu Jingyi had been living in his hometown until last year when he came to work in Changsha. The reason why Liu Jingyi insists on breaking up now is that he sees the wonderful world outside being attracted, finds other men, and plays with other boys, and even the other party harasses and threatens himself again and again.

Liu Jingyi explained that Ming Jiang misunderstood himself and his friends, and the harassment of his friends was just to clarify the facts to him. What makes Liu Jingyi even more angry is that Ming Jiang told his parents and spread the story. In Ming Jiang's hometown, any gossip will be infinitely magnified in an exaggerated way, and the Jiang family's suspicion of her comes from Jiang Ming's notification.

For Liu Jingyi, this 21-year-old girl is not strong enough to face all this, but instead of protecting her, her most trusted boyfriend makes the conflict worse. The original age gap of 13 years old, Ming Jiang can give Liu Jingyi more dependence and sense of belonging, while Ming Jiang is not firm enough. Until now, he realized that what his girlfriend really needs is trust and companionship.

at the age of 3, Ming Jiang no longer pursues excitement as he did when he was young. Now he also wants to have a stable home, his children are four years old, and everything is on the right track. He hopes that Liu Jingyi will give him another chance, which he will cherish.

Liu Jingyi's grandfather also said that her granddaughter lost her father when she was a child, and her mother remarried. She grew up with two old people. Granddaughter not only lacks paternal love, but also maternal love. Now the two old people are unable to take care of a four-year-old child. And Jing Yi has no fixed income, which makes them embarrassed. So what should Liu Jingyi do?

Liu Jingyi said that she didn't want to trust Ming Jiang's previous behavior, but she didn't resolutely break up in her words, perhaps because she was still reluctant to part with this relationship. And Ming Jiang promised that as long as Liu Jingyi wanted what he could give, he would give everything.

Finally, after mediation, the two agreed to be friends again. During this period, Ming Jiang will bear all the child support. Ming Jiang admits that everything is the best arrangement, and he is willing to give each other space. And Liu Jingyi, such as negative release heavy, smiled frankly.

Xiao Bian believes that Liu Jingyi has no father since childhood, and she has been living with her grandparents since her mother remarried. Liu Jingyi, who lacks fatherly love, fell in love with a man 13 years older than him. Now Liu Jingyi is no longer a 16-year-old girl. When she grows up, she begins to understand what color she wants to live. She also yearns for a colorful life. Marriage also needs to be based on trust, and I hope that Ming Jiang will give Liu Jingyi more communication and understanding in her future life and give her children a warm home again.

So, do you think Liu Jingyi's choice is right?