1. Differences in social and family concepts: With the changes of society, many young people pay more and more attention to individuality and freedom in their concept of marriage and love, which is very different from traditional parents. When parents arrange blind dates for their children, they are likely to ignore these differences and cause their children's resentment.
2. Psychological resistance: Some young people may already have a favorite object, or their feelings have reached a certain stage. In this case, there may be discomfort and resistance to parents' arrangements.
3. The influence of self-worth: Many young people pay more and more attention to individuality and independence in the process of pursuing self-worth and self-realization, while blind date is often regarded as an act of self-sacrifice and passive acceptance, which easily impacts young people's sense of self-worth.
4. Unwilling to be arranged: Many young people want to be able to make their own choices on the issue of marriage and love, instead of accepting the arrangement of their parents. The feeling of passive participation in blind date is also easy to cause discomfort and disgust among young people.
To sum up, parents' arrangement of blind date has brought challenges and contradictions to many young people. Parents can listen to their children's thoughts and opinions more, understand young people's thoughts and pursuits, and try their best to solve problems on the basis of communication and compromise.