Let's talk about the benefits of being single first:
1: You can sleep as long as you want, brush as long as you want, attend a friend's party, and go back as late as you want.
Step 2 save money
When a person is full, the whole family is not hungry, which saves the telephone bill and does not need to buy gifts for the object during the holidays.
3. Freedom to make friends
You can meet or make friends with handsome guys and beautiful women without scruple. Seeing the opposite sex more after dating will be the source of contradictions.
4. No need to accommodate
Any couple will have friction, so if you are single, you don't have to accommodate each other's small mistakes.
5. Worry and effort
Being single can focus on your own life, and you don't have to care about whether your partner has eaten, what he has eaten, whether he is full, what he is doing, whether he is in a good mood, why he is in a good mood, why he is in a bad mood, what I have done and whether he is in good health!
At the same time, being single also has many disadvantages:
1, inferiority complex is too serious.
No matter how successful your psychological career is, you will unconsciously doubt yourself and feel worthless and unattractive when you look at friends around you in pairs. Being dissatisfied with yourself and always complaining about yourself is also a sign of not being confident. More seriously, you will feel inferior, deny your self-worth and live in painful self-pity.
2. Loneliness and solitude
Eating and sleeping alone, no one can talk, no one can share the joys and sorrows for the first time. After a long time, it will lead to social degradation, self-centeredness and loneliness.
3, a single work and rest will be chaotic
People who have been single for a long time generally muddle along almost every day, and their work and rest will be irregular. They can make do with three meals a day and sometimes even eat some junk food for a long time. Because no one restrains themselves, it is common to stay up late, especially those who are not self-disciplined. If they live alone, it is more common to sleep late on weekends, and they will become more and more lazy.
Regarding feelings, whether you are single, in love or married, you should have a good attitude. You should get along sincerely, love when you are in love, and live well when you are single. Nothing is more important than happiness! !