First of all, you should make friends with cats. When you start to get in touch with cats, don't rush to get along with them. Let them get to know their owners. The best time to get close to a cat is when it is eating. You can talk to the cat quietly, but don't touch it yet. Get close to the cat when it is relaxed and let it know that you like it very much. Don't make any noise, and suddenly take action to scare the cat. When the cat knows its owner better, it should be given some caress, but not too much at first. As long as you are patient and gentle, cats will have a good impression on their owners and establish feelings.
Second, understand the cat's personality. After mastering the general habits of cats, it is necessary to understand the personality of cats, which is conducive to establishing and consolidating the feelings between people and cats. Every cat has a different personality. Some cats like sports, some cats are lazy, some cats like to be spoiled near their owners, some cats don't like their owners to touch and cuddle too much, some cats like spherical toys, and some cats are interested in birds' toys. Knowing the cat's personality, you can take targeted measures to enhance your feelings!
Third, don't punish cats often. Cats are different from other animals, and punishment will not have any effect on cats. So when the cat hates it, let it know that the owner doesn't want it to be like this, and don't beat and scold at will. Otherwise, the cat will think that the owner doesn't like it, feel that there is no warmth at home, and even run away from home. Under normal circumstances, cats of a certain age will know what to do and what not to do after living with their owners for a period of time.
Fourth, hug the cat correctly. Although hugging a cat is a common thing, if you don't pay attention, either people are scratched by cats, or cats are injured, or even cats are disabled for life. Before holding a cat, be familiar with it, pat it on the forehead or touch it on the back. Depending on the size and weight of the cat, it can be caught with one hand or two hands. Never scratch your ears, tail or limbs. If you scratch your ear, it is easy to break the cat's ear bone and cause disability. Cats scratch your limbs and bite you easily. Cats' tails are very sensitive, so pulling or stepping on their tails can easily lead to cats' attacks.